So I got a call from both my parents who are divorced, and they tell me that they want me to have the best wedding possible but want me to push the date back further. This is after I fell in love with my date and already got excited about everything, I can honestly say that conversation really hurt and still does. I know this is hard times for everybody, especially with the government being shut down. However I don't want to push my date back, I want to stick to my date, am I wrong for this? I would much rather just pay for something I can afford between me and my fiance and if they can chip in then so be it.....but I am stuck on this date which is September 14th, 2014. If I do push it back it would be 12/13/14, which is a couple months after, and that falls on my birthday :-) and also a monumental day, what are your thoughts on this? Thanks for the advice!