I am the mob and we are planning elegant evening wedding for my daughter. The bride/grooms families can invite app 60 people each One side of our family is huge. Many don't talk to each other and live all over the country. The other side is small and close. So we were going to invite imediate family plus our Aunts and Uncles but no cousins. In addition I'm inviting our close freinds but not their children unless they are extremely close to the bride or groom. The bride and groom can have whoever the want .
Here is the dilema. ALOT of these people have assumed thier grown children are going to be invited and have told us so ...or they mention how the " whole family" is going to need to travel to the wedding or some of our closest friends are assuming their entire family is invited. It's making us all uncomfortable
Should I say something now or should they find out when they don't get an invite
-sincerely,
can't win