I have posted many things on here just simply asking for suggestions and so have many others. There is no need to be rude to people you do not know. You don't know there situation, there budget, or theit lifestyle. Why would you judge and tell them that everything they are doing is a bad idea? Let's be resonable ladies. Grow up and talk to each other like a adults. and for god sake... set a better example! Being a bully is NEVER ok.