My engagement has been verrry long (2 years), and about 1.5 years ago, my sister (and MOH) asked me what I wanted to do for a bachelorette party. I told her that I wanted to go to Atlantic City and stay in one of the nicer hotels. It was so early, and it was really just a conversation about what I would like, not neccessarily what she would plan.
Well, without consulting the other guests, she went ahead and booked a hotel room that costs $375. There will only be 7 girls, so it will cost over $50 per person just for lodging (and some people have to sleep on the floor!). I'm starting to feel really guilty that this will just end up costing too much for people (between dinner, bars, and the room, people may end up spending $150 each). Should I tell my sister that I would feel more comfortable if we scaled it down and stayed at a lower cost hotel, or is $150 a reasonable amount of money for someone to spend? Part of me thinks that if people couldn't afford it, they would just not come, but since it's really only my close cousins and two best friends, I'm not sure they would feel comfortable declining.
Should I just stop worrying?