HELP... need advice

kk10152011 · October 2010

I wanted my FI to put a baby in me... It's all I've wanted since we got together... If it was his I would have kept it.

NatesGirl16 · October 2010

Thank you for coming to play on my day off.

Steph0871 · October 2010

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[QUOTE]I wanted my FI to put a baby in me... It's all I've wanted since we got together... If it was his I would have kept it.
Posted by kk10152011[/QUOTE]

<div>I can't handle this anymore. I tried... but I'm calling MUD too.</div>

kk10152011 · October 2010

No I'm not in high school... I graduated 2 years ago.

SarahPLiz · October 2010

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[QUOTE]I wanted my FI to put a baby in me... It's all I've wanted since we got together... If it was his I would have kept it.
Posted by kk10152011[/QUOTE]

<div>But you didn't know. That's not the other guys' fault. If you and your FI feel guilt over inviting another person into your sex life, then you need to deal with that guilt between the 2 of you. The other guy obviously has nothing to do with it. You are just using him as a scapegoat for your own bad decisions. </div>

NatesGirl16 · October 2010

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[QUOTE]<strong>I wanted my FI to put a baby in me...</strong> It's all I've wanted since we got together... If it was his I would have kept it.
Posted by kk10152011[/QUOTE]

WTF?

First of all, you sound like a 12 year old here.

Second, you said you didn't know whose baby it was. So, if you wanted FI's baby so bad, why would you get an abortion.

Quit while you're ahead.

K&J64 · October 2010

Ladies, i'm not expert knottie, Wtf is MUD and AE?? lol

SarahPLiz · October 2010

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[QUOTE]Ladies, i'm not expert knottie, Wtf is MUD and AE?? lol
Posted by kcullen37[/QUOTE]

<div>Made Up Drama</div><div>Alter Ego</div>

NatesGirl16 · October 2010

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[QUOTE]Ladies, i'm not expert knottie, Wtf is MUD and AE?? lol
Posted by kcullen37[/QUOTE]
made up drama
alter ego, like naother SN you might use just to stir shiit.

[Deleted User] · October 2010

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[QUOTE]<strong>I wanted my FI to put a baby in me... It's all I've wanted since we got together...</strong> If it was his I would have kept it.
Posted by kk10152011[/QUOTE]

Maybe he could feed you one? Then you'd know for sure where it came from and wouldn't even need the other guy to wear a condom. Problem solved.

Steph0871 · October 2010

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[QUOTE]No I'm not in high school... I graduated 2 years ago.
Posted by kk10152011[/QUOTE]

<div>I love that a few posts ago you said "long long time ago (while we were still in high school)"... and that was 2 years ago.</div>

kk10152011 · October 2010

I came here for real advice not to be accused of "stirring shiit"... Thanks for nothing...

NatesGirl16 · October 2010

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: HELP... need advice : <strong>Maybe he could feed you one? </strong>Then you'd know for sure where it came from and wouldn't even need the other guy to wear a condom. Problem solved.
Posted by Seshat411[/QUOTE]
Nope. Follow the rules:

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I like it so much I used it twice :P

kk10152011 · October 2010

2 years is a long long time...

[Deleted User] · October 2010

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[QUOTE]I wanted my FI to put a baby in me...
Posted by kk10152011[/QUOTE]

Would this be something that happens during the ceremony? Like that sand bullshit or something?

Steph0871 · October 2010

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: HELP... need advice : Maybe he could feed you one? Then you'd know for sure where it came from and wouldn't even need the other guy to wear a condom. Problem solved.
Posted by Seshat411[/QUOTE]

<div>DED,</div><div>
</div><div>Sesh, I heart you.</div>

NatesGirl16 · October 2010

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: HELP... need advice : I love that a few posts ago you said "long long time ago (while we were still in high school)"... and that was 2 years ago.
Posted by Steph0871[/QUOTE]
Anytime someone says a "long long time ago" I hear "an old, old wooden ship." Ron Burgundy rules my life.

OP--if you had really spent all weekend reading the boards to find your niche, you would have realized that your entire situation is so ridiculous, no one would buy it or deal with it (and that you caused it yourself).

[Deleted User] · October 2010

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: HELP... need advice : Nope. Follow the rules: I like it so much I used it twice :P
Posted by NatesGirl16[/QUOTE]

Ha. Nice. I shall follow the rules from now on.

K&J64 · October 2010

Here's my advice sweetie, you're what, 20 at the most? Don't rush into marriage. You and your FI still have some growing up to do. There's only one adult way to handle this assuming it's not MUD (i'm so cool now), he's invited and you and your FI get over it. Any other resolution is childish and selfish.

(i'm a betch, sorry)

Steph0871 · October 2010

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[QUOTE]2 years is a long long time...
Posted by kk10152011[/QUOTE]<div>
</div><div>It really isn't though, in the grand scheme of things, and in the length of your relationship with your FI.</div><div>
</div><div>If you really are not an AE, then I'm sorry for our responses. However, if you're not mature enough to deal with awkward situations like these, then you probably are not mature enough to be getting married (much less having threesomes!) </div><div>
</div><div>You did get real advice from us at the beginning, too. Without opening up to the guy and gf, there is no way to not invite him.

</div>

[Deleted User] · October 2010

You could send him a stripper gram to tell him he's not invited. If I received a bad news via stripper gram, I might be less likely to be pissed. And it sounds like he does love the ladies.

mgietler76 · October 2010

I'm also claiming MUD, I wanted to give advice at first but by the time I got through all the posts I can't imagine a person actually being this stupid, I refuse to believe it.

NatesGirl16 · October 2010

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[QUOTE]You could send him a stripper gram to tell him he's not invited. If I received a bad news via stripper gram, I might be less likely to be pissed. <strong>And it sounds like he does love the ladies.</strong>
Posted by cew515[/QUOTE]
DED.

kk10152011 · October 2010

"OP--if you had really spent all weekend reading the boards to find your niche, you would have realized that your entire situation is so ridiculous, no one would buy it or deal with it (and that you caused it yourself)."

Sorry I didn't see any other "My bridesmaid's BF got me pregnant and now I don't want him to come to the wedding" topics... I did see it said that you could kick someone out of your wedding if they had sex with your FI... That's what he did.

[Deleted User] · October 2010

Even if it is a troll, it's fun to play with. I hate it when people call mud all early and make it run away.

missy68 · October 2010

The letters RTYUIOP are now imprinted on my forehead.

Two years is a long time.

I don't know which part is the stupid part. But yeah. MUD. Maybe the 4 of them could do a dance (demonstrate the Safety Dance?) at the reception?

NatesGirl16 · October 2010

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[QUOTE]"OP--if you had really spent all weekend reading the boards to find your niche, you would have realized that your entire situation is so ridiculous, no one would buy it or deal with it (and that you caused it yourself)." Sorry I didn't see any other "My bridesmaid's BF got me pregnant and now I don't want him to come to the wedding" topics... I did see it said that you could kick someone out of your wedding if they had sex with your FI... That's what he did.
Posted by kk10152011[/QUOTE]
Oh my, I absolutely love you. Thank you so much for this. I was organizing clothes, but this is wayyyy better.

SarahPLiz · October 2010

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[QUOTE]"OP--if you had really spent all weekend reading the boards to find your niche, you would have realized that your entire situation is so ridiculous, no one would buy it or deal with it (and that you caused it yourself)." Sorry I didn't see any other "My bridesmaid's BF got me pregnant and now I don't want him to come to the wedding" topics... I did see it said that you could kick someone out of your wedding if they had sex with your FI... That's what he did.
Posted by kk10152011[/QUOTE]<div>
</div><div>But you let him. You consented. You cheated on your FI with him. You and your FI made this choice, and now you feel guilty and put all the blame on the other guy. That is very immature. You need to accept responsibility for your OWN actions. That is the sign of a grown up. You need to grow up before you get married. That's my advice. </div><div>
</div><div>ETA: I should not even be here now, but I came to give you advice. Take it, even if its not what you want to hear. I don't like to waste my time, but this was way better than bank recons.

</div>

mgietler76 · October 2010

You don't even know IF it was HIM who even got you pregnant, you consented to a threesome, grow up and accept the consequences.

[Deleted User] · October 2010

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: HELP... need advice : It really isn't though, in the grand scheme of things, and in the length of your relationship with your FI.
Posted by Steph0871[/QUOTE]

Whatever, Steph. Clearly you just don't understand how different things are in the teenage world. 2 years is FOREVER, like, life-altering experiences that totally shape your spiritual being in a way that old, grouchy adults could never understand.

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