It was going so well, FMIL paying for cake, FFIL paying for alcohol, I sold some of my jewelry from my ex, FI did his tax return to put towards the wedding ($1200), the snow is melting...and I'm actually thinking I'm in a good position.
Then I get a random tax document in the mail that my company kept sending to the wrong address for money I took out of my pension that I used when I bought my house (I paid the taxes at the time I took it out) and I sent it to my accountant and now she's saying I have to file an ammendment and I'm probably going to have to give back my entire refund plus a few hundred ($1800 or so) which is how I'm paying for school.
I want to just throw up now. This is the first time I've been stressed in months. There's nothing else about this wedding I can scale back at this time. I already did it all....I'll just keep trucking and dealing with it and making it work but... gah.