I judge

AlexiaANDRobert · May 2010

Mandy - I'm sorry your dad sucks

I think baby pics as defaults are a way for someone to AW their kid. I'll probably do it. Hell, I think I did it when I got my puppy...

And Brie, I'm sorry your mom sucks too. I think your first look pics were awesome. I was on the fence about First Look pics, but Robert didn't want to do it so we didn't.

I judge the people above me to have either super loud sex or fall out of their bed or rearrange the furniture at 5 AM. Or 3 AM. Or ALL the fuucking time.

AmoroAgain · May 2010

I also judge people who use photos of their ultrasounds/kids as their profile pics on FB. I really find us's gross (especially the 3D ones) and I didn't become your friend on FB to see your kid. I joined to see YOU. It's just another thing that bugs me about parents.

ExpatPumpkin · May 2010

I judge people who fly home from tropical destinations dressed like they were just going to walk down the beach for a margarita and accidentally ended up on a plane.

I understand that you had a great vacation and never wanted to leave, but you're flying home now. Put on some clothes. It's just common sense. Plus, planes are often cold. Please.

beatlesgirl25 · May 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_judge-14?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:b6886e25-edbd-497c-b0dc-603ac1589eecPost:4215d6b7-698e-4e79-9465-f047c3fa5b20">Re: I judge</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge : My profile pic is of my kid and it has nothing to do with losing my identity. I just think he's cuter than me.
Posted by btrflykate1230[/QUOTE]

Nice. ;) I think you're both pretty cute though.

I judge people who get married and then suddenly change all their email addresses and FB to "<a href="mailto:thesmiths@yahoo.com" title="Linkification: mailto:thesmiths@yahoo.com" class="linkification-ext">thesmiths@yahoo.com</a>" or "rob and tina's FB." Now <em>that's</em> losing your identity. It's also weird as a friend to send personal emails to said addresses, because I have to write them as though her husband will be looking at it first. It's greeeat.

Brie2010 · May 2010

Thanks, Alexia. She just likes to piss on my parade about every decision I make that isn't exactly what she'd do. She's super controlling and always plays the victim. I'm considering going to therapy/counseling to figure out some coping tactics for dealing with her.

janedoe1113a · May 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_judge-14?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:b6886e25-edbd-497c-b0dc-603ac1589eecPost:34bf9b34-971c-4d85-ab8c-3d57ee0f02da">Re: I judge</a>:
[QUOTE]Mandy - I'm sorry your dad sucks :(<strong> I think baby pics as defaults are a way for someone to AW their kid. I'll probably do it. Hell, I think I did it when I got my puppy...</strong> And Brie, I'm sorry your mom sucks too. I think your first look pics were awesome. I was on the fence about First Look pics, but Robert didn't want to do it so we didn't. I judge the people above me to have either super loud sex or fall out of their bed or rearrange the furniture at 5 AM. Or 3 AM. Or ALL the fuucking time.
Posted by AlexiaANDRobert[/QUOTE]

I don't mind if you're in the picture with the kid, but if it's just the kid themselves, it bugs the heck out of me.

beatlesgirl25 · May 2010

Oh, and happy belated birthday Mandy.

buddhagouda · May 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_judge-14?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:b6886e25-edbd-497c-b0dc-603ac1589eecPost:bcf48f7f-96af-4c59-8bda-c7eb3e645cc5">Re: I judge</a>:
[QUOTE]I judge people who judge people's secrets on KPS because I feel like it should not be judgey.
Posted by andy71781[/QUOTE]<div>
</div><div>Isn't the whole point of posting anonymously that you know what you are posting is judgment worthy? I judge people that don't judge KPS. Some of that (if it is even real which I still waffle on) is pretty judgerrific.

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AlexiaANDRobert · May 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_judge-14?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:b6886e25-edbd-497c-b0dc-603ac1589eecPost:0d4c847a-ef3d-4f10-938f-1cde25762dc9">Re: I judge</a>:
[QUOTE]Thanks, Alexia. She just likes to piss on my parade about every decision I make that isn't exactly what she'd do. She's super controlling and always plays the victim. I'm considering going to therapy/counseling to figure out some coping tactics for dealing with her.
Posted by Brie2010[/QUOTE]

I went to counseling for a while because it seemed like every time I opened my mouth there was a battle with my parents. It REALLY helped me to learn to communicate with them. And accept some things aren't going to change and I shouldn't let it bother me.

I recommend it. Good luck.

beatlesgirl25 · May 2010

Brie, if you don't mind me asking, how did it go at the wedding with your mom wanting to see and count all your wedding cash? I hope it wasn't a problem for you guys. Also, sorry if you already updated that situation.

AlexiaANDRobert · May 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_judge-14?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:b6886e25-edbd-497c-b0dc-603ac1589eecPost:2689ae8f-b681-4341-b331-606e3900a637">Re: I judge</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge : Nice. ;) I think you're both pretty cute though. I judge people who get married and then suddenly change all their email addresses and FB to " thesmiths@yahoo.com " or "rob and tina's FB." Now that's losing your identity. It's also weird as a friend to send personal emails to said addresses, because I have to write them as though her husband will be looking at it first. It's greeeat.
Posted by beatlesgirl25[/QUOTE]

Now THAT is weird.

mandysmear · May 2010

I judge people who are in company vehicles for services (plumbing, electrician, etc) with signage all over it... but then they cut you off and drive like a-holes. Like, yeah you're going to be the first person I call when my plumbing backs up. a) you're going so fast i can't make out the words and phone number and 2) fuuckyou, you just cut me off.

tidetravel · May 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_judge-14?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:b6886e25-edbd-497c-b0dc-603ac1589eecPost:34bf9b34-971c-4d85-ab8c-3d57ee0f02da">Re: I judge</a>:
[QUOTE]Mandy - I'm sorry your dad sucks :( I<strong> think baby pics as defaults are a way for someone to AW their kid.</strong> I'll probably do it. Hell, I think I did it when I got my puppy... And Brie, I'm sorry your mom sucks too. I think your first look pics were awesome. I was on the fence about First Look pics, but Robert didn't want to do it so we didn't. I judge the people above me to have either super loud sex or fall out of their bed or rearrange the furniture at 5 AM. Or 3 AM. Or ALL the fuucking time.
Posted by AlexiaANDRobert[/QUOTE]

I do it because it's better than 20 posts saying, "Look at how cute Taryn is TODAY!!!"

crfische · May 2010

No matter how hard I try, I judge them.

I think people who say they don't are lying.

MeaghanandMichael · May 2010

I hear you on that facebook thing Beatles. My mom and dad have the same email account and I judge that. My dad set up up so it always read, "Have a great day! - Mike" at the bottom even when it is from my mom, Mary. I get that she really could care less and doesn't get why I judge her (I have told her before) but I can't help myself.

MeaghanandMichael · May 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_judge-14?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:b6886e25-edbd-497c-b0dc-603ac1589eecPost:d6da9c8b-f413-402f-98ed-775f3de5f27b">Re: I judge</a>:
[QUOTE]No matter how hard I try, I judge them. I think people who say they don't are lying.
Posted by crfische[/QUOTE]

Yup, me too. Although, I get judgy on some people's judgements. So that gets pretty mind boggling fast.

mandysmear · May 2010

Thanks Beatles and Alexia

AmoroAgain · May 2010

I judge Buddha for being a super cute pregnant woman. If that were me, I'd probably be waffling around like a dying walrus.

ohwhynot · May 2010

I don't mind kid pics, but I judge people who have their kids make their outgoing answering machine messages. I don't need to hear your kids slobbering their way through some garbled message; it's not cute.

Brie2010 · May 2010

BG, she dropped it, thankfully. We kept the card box right next to the DJ and told him to keep an eye on it. Right before we left, we gave it to our friend who was driving us back to the hotel and there was no consternation. I put my foot down a few weeks before the wedding and she hasn't asked about it since.

TurtlesAllTheWayDown · May 2010

I judge my boss for ALWAYS forgetting what days I'm going to be out of the office. Dude, it's like three times a year. And I ask a month in advance. Buy a calendar. I also judge him for wanting me to get 3 days worth of work done before I leave today - after I reminded him I was going to be gone and worked ahead on my own anyway.

vallyhoo · May 2010

the obvious thing that I judge is the chick who called Salt a snowflake.

AlexiaANDRobert · May 2010

I judge Brie for not putting a hot new wedding sig pic up.

I judge myself if she has mentioned a reason for not doing this yet.

mandysmear · May 2010

alexia, she can't get it to work. god, you're such a fuckingjudger.

Brie2010 · May 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_judge-14?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:b6886e25-edbd-497c-b0dc-603ac1589eecPost:70be07ce-3b06-4215-b2fa-47447e3fea2a">Re: I judge</a>:
[QUOTE]I judge Brie for not putting a hot new wedding sig pic up. I judge myself if she has mentioned a reason for not doing this yet. :)
Posted by AlexiaANDRobert[/QUOTE]

I'm trying! I've been getting error messages when I try to change my sig for the last three days. Boo.

pumpkinpumpkin · May 2010

I judge people who use derogatory terms (such as snowflake) and get away with it.
I judge people who drive slow in the fast lane.
I judge men who wear too much cologne, stinking up the office for the remainder of the day.
I judge women who do the same with too much perfume.
I judge the asshole that works for me - has a back injury (not caused by work), so goes on short term disability (fine by me), and is then caught commercial fishing, helping his farmer buddy, and got mad at me when I confronted him about it. His farming buddy is the one that told me. Loser.
I judge anyone who smokes in a vehicle with the windows up. EVEN MORE when there's children in the vehicle - windows open even. It's illegal, you fucking twats.

LP11509 · May 2010

Mery, my boss forgets when I'm off too. I reminded her yesterday that I'm off today and tomorrow, and she still paged my phone this morning asking where I am. I think she's a little overwhelmed after 2 out of 3 case managers quitting in a 2 week time span, but still.

janedoe1113a · May 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_judge-14?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:b6886e25-edbd-497c-b0dc-603ac1589eecPost:826db573-f633-4017-a4eb-2904e0f504ed">Re: I judge</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge : I'm trying! I've been getting error messages when I try to change my sig for the last three days. Boo.
Posted by Brie2010[/QUOTE]

It did that to me this morning, but I just refreshed it and it worked.

AlexiaANDRobert · May 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_judge-14?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:b6886e25-edbd-497c-b0dc-603ac1589eecPost:5d102918-f594-49cd-a5a4-c01a1c6a7a93">Re: I judge</a>:
[QUOTE]alexia, she can't get it to work. god, you're such a fuckingjudger.
Posted by mandysmear[/QUOTE]

Heyheyhey, I covered the judging me part.

So, now I judge theknot for not letting Brie change her sig pic.

And for the avatar bullshiit. theknot seriously needs new people in IT.

btrflykate1230 · May 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_judge-14?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:b6886e25-edbd-497c-b0dc-603ac1589eecPost:155a0811-e414-40f9-9213-e573b3d465fa">Re: I judge</a>:
[QUOTE]I judge people who are in company vehicles for services (plumbing, electrician, etc) with signage all over it... but then they cut you off and drive like a-holes. Like, yeah you're going to be the first person I call when my plumbing backs up. a) you're going so fast i can't make out the words and phone number and 2) fuuckyou, you just cut me off.
Posted by mandysmear[/QUOTE]

I actually called the company of a truck that did that to me once. I gave them the license plate number and everything. I hope that jackass got what he deserved.

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