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specialk84 · February 2012

This isn't a flame, but I have no idea who ceh is. She's been posting a ton recently, and I like her. She gives good advice (or at least, I haven't seen any bad advice). Ceh, please don't let this go to your head. Please stay normal.

[Deleted User] · February 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-85?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3c84bcfd-680c-4d21-aaf8-7cfb20431e4fPost:8e150eaa-3365-4aea-a8dc-19b72de0bdef">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]Daff, that "real" wedding comment and her reaction to you pissed me off.
Posted by specialk84[/QUOTE]
I didn't much care for the exchange between Eagles and StephBean that ensued, either. It was pretty barf-worthy. I thought it was pretty well established that they were up each other's butts. I was kind of surprised that it seemed as if they were just discovering that they liked each other. "You're awesome." "No YOU'RE awesome." "Well I'm just 78% awesome." "You're at least 82% awesome!" Gag.

dumdumfroggie · February 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-85?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3c84bcfd-680c-4d21-aaf8-7cfb20431e4fPost:17930d75-f526-48de-81f1-0e0cf213d533">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Speaking of which, who is this myname1234 person? They came out of nowhere and are all over the place.
Posted by annakb8[/QUOTE]

<div>Ha! See right above your post.</div>

annakb8 · February 2012

I just want to put this out there. I think Kinsey is fake. For the record.

Rosie109 · February 2012

I think I am just completely disgusted by her venue trying to fake people out when they think they have gotten too drunk. Thats not really her per say. But still.

Also? I don't feel like going back into it, but I think party lines exist for a reason. Sure there are nicer more elongated ways of saying "you only get one day" but its the godawful truth.

FutureMrsFezz · February 2012

dumdum- How do you know myname is cali? Did I miss where she outed herself?

midgetthemighty · February 2012

Rosie, I wasn't here for that, but the whole time I was reading your flame, "no education goes to waste" is exactly what I was thinking. Learning is never wasteful.

[Deleted User] · February 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-85?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3c84bcfd-680c-4d21-aaf8-7cfb20431e4fPost:a61cdfea-2f41-439a-aebf-0c0aeea57844">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]I disagreed about the "real" wedding comment just because I think I read it differently than Daff and Special. I don't think she meant that weddings weren't real if kids weren't involved.
Posted by rachers1017[/QUOTE]
I will admit that I didn't actually think that's what she <em>meant</em>, despite the implication of what she said. I just thought the comment was annoying and her reaction to it was really annoying.

dumdumfroggie · February 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-85?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3c84bcfd-680c-4d21-aaf8-7cfb20431e4fPost:633756ca-88c1-4d4f-8a00-b120c8ad2051">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]dumdum- How do you know myname is cali? Did I miss where she outed herself?
Posted by FutureMrsFezz[/QUOTE]<div>
</div><div>I think she did, but hell if I know where it was. I'll see if I can find it.</div><div>
</div><div>ETA: <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_can-someone-tell-me-how-to-delete-my-account-on-here">http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_can-someone-tell-me-how-to-delete-my-account-on-here</a></div>

[Deleted User] · February 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-85?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3c84bcfd-680c-4d21-aaf8-7cfb20431e4fPost:0f0dd604-4f4c-4445-8c25-70c82d36d2f6">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]This isn't a flame, but I have no idea who ceh is. She's been posting a ton recently, and I like her. She gives good advice (or at least, I haven't seen any bad advice). Ceh, please don't let this go to your head. Please stay normal.
Posted by specialk84[/QUOTE]
She seems ok. I'll also reverse-flame NYCfoodie. I like her.

MyUserName1 · February 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-85?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3c84bcfd-680c-4d21-aaf8-7cfb20431e4fPost:8701f314-eb53-4edf-bf97-edbffb1fec5a">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]Fezz -- At the end of Cali's "GBCK' thread, she came back with her new name.
Posted by cfaszews25[/QUOTE]

No wonder most of us missed it.

I opened it, realized it was a GBCK, and didn't read any more.

FutureMrsFezz · February 2012

Ah, okay. I didn't read that thread to the end.

K Byte · February 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-85?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3c84bcfd-680c-4d21-aaf8-7cfb20431e4fPost:8f260e70-e728-4998-9a71-fdd07d889ddf">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Along with this I flame myname1234, who used to be some SN with a yahoo email. Calibud something I think. <strong>She made a really strong confession in the confession thread, which people either didn't respond to, or were just shocked by. Then an hour or so later posted a GBCK thread about it, which was extremely AWish in my opinion. </strong> When people started telling her she was ok and didn't need to go, she came back with a new SN and has been posting far more than she ever used to. The whole thing was strange to me. Also, I don't understand giving positive feedback to people who do things like that.
Posted by dumdumfroggie[/QUOTE]
Yeah that was so weird. This random person comes out of the woodwork with "I'm glad my kid's dad is dead" (I think that was the confession, it was either that or in prison, right?) and of course, the general reaction was "... what?" Apparently that wasn't what she was expecting to happen, lol.

annakb8 · February 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-85?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3c84bcfd-680c-4d21-aaf8-7cfb20431e4fPost:3a1c11e1-738d-4e2a-8cb9-383731cdd007">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : I will admit that I didn't actually think that's what she meant , despite the implication of what she said. I just thought the comment was annoying and her reaction to it was really annoying.
Posted by daffodil_jill[/QUOTE]<div>
</div><div>It's just one of those situations (like saying SAH wastes your education) that people need to think twice about before posting. They seem like innocuous statements but it shouldn't be too hard to realize they might offend someone.

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chelseamb11 · February 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-85?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3c84bcfd-680c-4d21-aaf8-7cfb20431e4fPost:2e19eb71-cdf4-4c31-b9c1-af6a60bd83a9">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE](Cross-board flame, I apologize in advance) I am totally flaming Simply Fated for her responses in this thread: <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_replacing-bridesmaids-gay-bridal-attendant-etc-long">http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_replacing-bridesmaids-gay-bridal-attendant-etc-long</a> She was so busy being bitchy to the OP she missed a couple important things in the post, and came across as an ass.
Posted by MRSBJS[/QUOTE]

AGreed. I was going to post the same thing but I'm late to the game today.

myname1234 · February 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-85?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:3c84bcfd-680c-4d21-aaf8-7cfb20431e4fPost:633756ca-88c1-4d4f-8a00-b120c8ad2051">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]dumdum- How do you know myname is cali? Did I miss where she outed herself?
Posted by FutureMrsFezz[/QUOTE]

It is. That's me.
I deleted the calibud8 account because, even though it wasn't a valid email address, people commented on it a lot. And i'm making a point to post like crazy because of the suggestions I had received to "get out there and let people get to know you."

And I flame myself for that all too. I let a really bad day get the best of me.

specialk84 · February 2012

Anna, I'll join you with the thoughts on Kinsey. Something about her just seems off.

Plus, she used the phrase "grammar nazi," which I loathe. She also had some weird thread about grammar, and how important it is, though she could not see why it was hypocritical for her to refuse to spell words in their entirety. "Tho" is not "though."

Habs2Hart · February 2012

Anna - I agree with you about Kinsey.

annakb8 · February 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-85?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3c84bcfd-680c-4d21-aaf8-7cfb20431e4fPost:40a4e72b-eb24-400e-a9d6-d55760ac1b01">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]Anna, I'll join you with the thoughts on Kinsey. Something about her just seems off. <strong>Plus, she used the phrase "grammar nazi," which I loathe</strong>. She also had some weird thread about grammar, and how important it is, though she could not see why it was hypocritical for her to refuse to spell words in their entirety. "Tho" is not "though."
Posted by specialk84[/QUOTE]

<div>Yeah, I hate that too. </div>

dumdumfroggie · February 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-85?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3c84bcfd-680c-4d21-aaf8-7cfb20431e4fPost:40a4e72b-eb24-400e-a9d6-d55760ac1b01">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]Anna, I'll join you with the thoughts on Kinsey. Something about her just seems off. Plus, she used the phrase "grammar nazi," which I loathe. She also had some weird thread about grammar, and how important it is, though <strong>she could not see why it was hypocritical for her to refuse to spell words in their entirety. "Tho" is not "though."</strong>
Posted by specialk84[/QUOTE]

<div>I'm just agreeing with you today, apparently. I was just going to write something like that. After the original thread on it, there was a whole thread after about how it's due to the language changing. No, no it's not, it's being lazy. Own it.</div>

kwilliams111012 · February 2012

Ouch. I see why newbies are hard to come by here. If I bother y'all THAT much, then I guess I can just go. Although I really do enjoy participating and offering opinions. But when you're not welcome, you're not welcome.

specialk84 · February 2012

I think the budget board, in general, is pretty condescending.

Stackeye210 · February 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-85?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3c84bcfd-680c-4d21-aaf8-7cfb20431e4fPost:cc227f6f-b48e-44e3-b823-613c4f644dca">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]Ouch. I see why newbies are hard to come by here. If I bother y'all THAT much, then I guess I can just go. Although I really do enjoy participating and offering opinions. But when you're not welcome, you're not welcome.
Posted by kwilliams111012[/QUOTE]

<div>I don't understand why people talk like this. You GBCK'd with the same non sense. Just be yourself, if you like posting here then post here. Everyone gets flamed at some point. If flames are saying take it down a notch, then maybe take it down a notch. </div><div>
</div><div>Well unless you're Birdie, cuz she's perfect. </div>

josephwedding · February 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-85?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3c84bcfd-680c-4d21-aaf8-7cfb20431e4fPost:0d003b41-a025-4c0b-8530-a38d10667150">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : It is. That's me. I deleted the calibud8 account because, even though it wasn't a valid email address, people commented on it a lot. And i'm making a point to post like crazy because of the suggestions I had received to "get out there and let people get to know you." And I flame myself for that all too. I let a really bad day get the best of me.
Posted by myname1234[/QUOTE]

<div>I get that. We all have bad days... hope you're feeling & doing better now. I'm pretty sure many of my first posts on TK were FFF worthy. </div>

LDYGTR13 · February 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-85?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3c84bcfd-680c-4d21-aaf8-7cfb20431e4fPost:cc227f6f-b48e-44e3-b823-613c4f644dca">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]Ouch. I see why newbies are hard to come by here. If I bother y'all THAT much, then I guess I can just go. Although I really do enjoy participating and offering opinions. But when you're not welcome, you're not welcome.
Posted by kwilliams111012[/QUOTE]

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baystateapple · February 2012

I'm in an MA program right now and if H told me tomorrow that I could be a SAHW/M, I'd be allllll over that. At least temporarily, because I really want to go back and teach. But I'd love to be able to have seriously big chunks of time to study, do research, and write. Love it.

Rummi302 · February 2012

I flame myself for reading these threads thinking "ohhh I can't wait until she sees this and responds" when I should really be more productive.

specialk84 · February 2012

KWill, if you tone it down, people will generally come around and like you. Lots of regs got off to a rough start.

[Deleted User] · February 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-85?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3c84bcfd-680c-4d21-aaf8-7cfb20431e4fPost:cc227f6f-b48e-44e3-b823-613c4f644dca">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]Ouch. I see why newbies are hard to come by here.
Posted by kwilliams111012[/QUOTE]
It's not a noob issue. It's a you issue.

Some people fit in right off the bat. Some people take a licking, don't react by sulking, and stick around just fine.

eorea · February 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-85?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3c84bcfd-680c-4d21-aaf8-7cfb20431e4fPost:3a1c11e1-738d-4e2a-8cb9-383731cdd007">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : I will admit that I didn't actually think that's what she meant , despite the implication of what she said. I just thought the comment was annoying and her reaction to it was really annoying.
Posted by daffodil_jill[/QUOTE]<div>
</div><div>I agree with this. I didn't think she meant that but after you asked she could have just answered your question and explained what she meant instead of being annoying. </div><div>
</div><div>I think this happened last week when there wasn't a FFF but I flame Habs for the "New Brides" thread and her comment on the two weddings thread. I usually enjoy her posts but both of those posts were really stupid and pointless. </div><div>
</div><div>I also flame for Muni for throwing out her generic responses without even reading the threads.
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