Bad etiquette situation that I need your advice on!: I have the worst memory in the world and can't recall if I gifted a distant friend for her wedding which I was invited to last year but couldn't attend. I did go to her bach party and I did gift her for that- and I think I may have brought with me a card with gift voucher for her wedding, but I never received a thank-you so now I wonder if I did actually do that at all, or if I just intended to do so but didn't end up bringing the card, thinking I'd get her something and send it (her wedding was around the same time as mine and thus I was somewhat busy and frazzled at the time). I am seeing her for tomorrow the first time since the wedding, and don't know if I should bring a gift or not....
Should I, a) presume the lack of thank-you card means I didn't give her a gift, and bring a gift with us for her apologising for the lengthly delay (maybe something bigger thus the lack of posting it?), hoping that I didn't already give her a gift or that if I did, she doesn't say anything, b) call her and clarify if I did give her anything (hello, awkward situation!), or c) forget about it. Or d) something else that I haven't brainstormed yet. Suggestions?