Maybe I'm weird, but this is a HUGE deal to me. My fiance's family keeps asking why we are staying in different hotels the night before the wedding and why we can't do pictures together before the ceremony. Am I crazy? I really want the first time my fiance sees me on the day of the wedding to be when I come down the aisle...
One of my fiance's sisters got married the day we were receiving the remnants of a tropical storm (strange in NY) and because they knew there was going to be bad weather, she actually put her dress on the day before her wedding and they did their pictures outside the day before!
I think that his family thinks I'm being stupid and inflexible when really I just want that first moment to be really special.