KPS.

ArmyofUs · April 2011

I don't know what to think about these...I mean, they seam so heart felt and honest, but I feel bad looking at tem. Like it's something I'm not supposed to know.

Birdie1483 · April 2011

Army, if they didn't want you to know, they wouldn't have posted them. Don't worry.

LDYGTR13 · April 2011

Army, have you ever read the real PostSecret? These secrets are really similar to stuff on there.

ArmyofUs · April 2011

I had never heard of it before today.

Celles · April 2011

I don't judge the rape one. Rape fantasies aren't all that uncommon, and I'm sure whoever posted it knows the difference between rape and consensual roleplaying.

mica178 · April 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_kps-6?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:aec7a9a3-6312-4e3d-8a00-e2b343d5e34bPost:a72a25e8-82ef-4990-9955-6a7cba23dc6d">Re: KPS.</a>:
[QUOTE]Yeah I don't think there's anything wrong with role playing at all, but I don't understand role playing rape.
Posted by kcscejal[/QUOTE]

I agree. I especially can't imagine a man being okay watching his <strong>best friend</strong> "rape" his <strong>fiancee</strong>. Nope. Just don't see the appeal. Of course, H is a super-alpha, so he'd rather believe that I'd never so much as been kissed when we met. <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-innocent.gif" border="0" alt="Innocent" title="Innocent" />

Meg1979 · April 2011

I'm just happy there are more to read! Thanks, Fishy, for bringing it up!

LDYGTR13 · April 2011

Check it out - it's like crack! www.postsecret.com

Also, about the rape one...as someone who's been raped before...I don't get it. It was pretty traumatic for me. I still can't handle H sitting on me where I can't move and even being in small spaces with men I dont know (or that I'm not 100% okay with) can give me SERIOUS anxiety. I threw up once b/c H was sitting on me trying to play around. Thankfully he knows when to stop now.

However, at the same time, I get it. I know this sounds weird, but before I was in that situation, I had fantasized about being raped or at least being pushed to have sex in a forceful way...I dont anymore, but I remember thinking that it would be kinda hot.

xyrius · April 2011

LDY - I'm so sorry you went through that.

mica178 · April 2011

Oh, LDY. I'm so sorry that happened to you.

[Deleted User] · April 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_kps-6?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:aec7a9a3-6312-4e3d-8a00-e2b343d5e34bPost:cf3dd93a-8e70-4067-b16d-7f3a9af91a88">Re: KPS.</a>:
[QUOTE]I don't judge the rape one. Rape fantasies aren't all that uncommon, and I'm sure whoever posted it knows the difference between rape and consensual roleplaying.
Posted by Celles[/QUOTE]

I don't think anyone is saying they don't know the difference between the two, just that we don't get it. And as someone who grew up with those memories, putting any kind of sexual abuse in a "happy" light just makes my stomach hurt.

baystateapple · April 2011

*HUGS* LDY.

LDYGTR13 · April 2011

Thank, Xyr. Wasn't trying to be a thread killer, guyth. Just trying to thow thum perthpective!

BACK TO HAPPY!

I'm OUTRAGEOUSLY excited that the poster with the depressed mom contacted me. I

her. Not gonna tell you who she is. BUT I LOVE HER. And that's all there is to it. SO THERE.

Meg1979 · April 2011

Oh, LDY, how terrible. I'm so sorry that you had to go through that.

crfische · April 2011

LDY and SESH. Hugs to you both.

baystateapple · April 2011

I just want to hug these people.

Birdie1483 · April 2011

I know we had a confessions thread earlier, but this kind of goes along with the friends thing earlier... I like seeing knottie status updates more than a lot of my real life friends on Facebook.

missy68 · April 2011

I've often wondered if J and I had kids, would they have been burdened with my issues? When I think about that, I just think God, I don't want to do that to a child.

Birdie, YGM

LDYGTR13 · April 2011

Birdie - me too!! And when I get posts on my walls from knotties it kinda makes my day (I'M LOOKIN' AT YOU CENGLE!)

RobotLegs · April 2011

And dude, using the rape word aside... having sex with your FI's BFF while your H watched? Whatthefuckityfuck?

I mean, do what you want, but yeah, I don't get it. I don't GET IT.

pinkpinot · April 2011

Do you guys like my dog posts???!!!????

Birdie1483 · April 2011

Back atcha!

LDYGTR13 · April 2011

Gotta agree with the 'Bot on this one. If H wanted me to bang his BFF, I dont think he'd be my H.

cengle · April 2011

**HUGS** LDY. I can't say how sorry I am that you had to go through that.

Wanting to prosecute rapists and sex offenders is the entire reason I went to law school. True story. And that's still what I want to do. People who do that literally make me sick.

Birdie: That's one of my biggest fears about moving. Although, if we do move, I'd love to be your friend IRL, because Louisville is top of the list of places H wants to move to. And, most of his close friends are there, so I feel selfish wanting to stay here, where my friends are.

RobotLegs · April 2011

AND.

I'd be concerned if my H found the idea of me getting raped (or "raped") hot.

crfische · April 2011

See, I think it's normal for people when they talk about having kids to worry about all of our perceived and/or real weaknesses that we have and passing those along instead of saying, you know what? I bet my kid is going to be all of the GOOD things that I can pass on to a kid, ya know?

WE ALL DO IT, but it's so self-defeating. Like my kid? I could worry that they won't be able to make a brownie to save their soul or be an anxious person like I was, but ya know what? They'll probably be an awesome super fan, and love life, and laugh a lot, and they might be a little funny and kind of smart and damn it, they'll be a good person.

Am I making sense?

Birdie1483 · April 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_kps-6?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:aec7a9a3-6312-4e3d-8a00-e2b343d5e34bPost:c8e6c2dd-c4c6-45ee-8c85-84db327110fb">Re: KPS.</a>:
[QUOTE]Do you guys like my dog posts???!!!????
Posted by pinkpinot[/QUOTE]

YES!

xyrius · April 2011

**Hugs Seshat**

Another confession.

It's wierd, but when I come on the knot and I see the friendships that exist in here, I feel like I'm on the outside looking in - and I'm very envious. I've been around for a while but I post very little because I don't want to come off as "trying too hard" or whatever. I would love to have Knottie friends too.

Wow that sounded really desperate. Probably should have sent that in as a kps but I'm too lazy.

RobotLegs · April 2011

Xyrius- You know I think you're super and you need to be around more!

cengle · April 2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_kps-6?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:aec7a9a3-6312-4e3d-8a00-e2b343d5e34bPost:1d8cac3e-8f5f-412e-aa28-c52688ac04a2">Re: KPS.</a>:
[QUOTE]Birdie - me too!! And when I get posts on my walls from knotties it kinda makes my day (I'M LOOKIN' AT YOU CENGLE!)
Posted by LDYGTR13[/QUOTE]

<img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-kiss.gif" border="0" alt="Kiss" title="Kiss" />
I have a big ol' grin on my face right now. For real.
I'm pretty sure I talk to, and about, my knottie friends more than anyone else but my H. Luckily, he thinks it's cool and doesn't think we're all weird. He actually wants to meet some of you guys too.

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