I am planning on having a decent sized wedding (around 100 people). I am a very laid back person and am not into the whole bridesmaid thing but I do want a small wedding party. I am a lot closer to my two best friends than my cousins (who have been more like sisters to me my whole life). But I feel like they would get offended if I made my friends the MOHs instead of my two cousins. I also want to have my fiancee's sister to be in the wedding in some way.
So, I was wonderign if it was OK to just have 'bridal attendants' or a bridal party but not give anyone official titles like MOH or bridesmaid. Does that seem fair?
I would not make them get matching dresses but I would just ask them all to wear a black dress or something like that.