I'm a lurker, but I made an account to say this.

CantWate2BWed · December 2010

I can't believe some of you girls on this website are planning your wedding before being engaged. Don't you think there is a reason that your boyfriend won't propose to you? He's probably terrified of what you will become if you already aren't patient enough to wait until the proposal to begin to plan your wedding!

This site is for engaged people, not for people wanting to play bride. You're wasting your time. As for the post beneath this one, about "Does your boyfriend know if you're on the knot," if it freaks him out that you're on his site, you should get off of it! You're only scaring him away. He will soon see how crazy you are and run for the hills!

It's pitiful. Get a life!

deburnin · December 2010

A lurker huh? Where do you lurk?

CASK85 · December 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_im-lurker-but-made-account-say-this?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:7f59c8c2-7f97-4a2b-a0c7-b3a0ca9e5bd2Post:cff15ae6-5b7e-4258-8a40-d5930bed5124">I'm a lurker, but I made an account to say this.</a>:
[QUOTE]I can't believe some of you girls on this website are planning your wedding before being engaged. Don't you think there is a reason that your boyfriend won't propose to you? He's probably terrified of what you will become if you already aren't patient enough to wait until the proposal to begin to plan your wedding! This site is for engaged people, not for people wanting to play bride. You're wasting your time. As for the post beneath this one, about "Does your boyfriend know if you're on the knot," if it freaks him out that you're on his site, you should get off of it! You're only scaring him away. He will soon see how crazy you are and run for the hills! It's pitiful. Get a life!
Posted by CantWate2BWed[/QUOTE]
You spelled "wait" wrong.

loopy82 · December 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_im-lurker-but-made-account-say-this?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:7f59c8c2-7f97-4a2b-a0c7-b3a0ca9e5bd2Post:cff15ae6-5b7e-4258-8a40-d5930bed5124">I'm a lurker, but I made an account to say this.</a>:
[QUOTE]I can't believe some of you girls on this website are planning your wedding before being engaged. Don't you think there is a reason that your boyfriend won't propose to you? He's probably terrified of what you will become if you already aren't patient enough to wait until the proposal to begin to plan your wedding! This site is for engaged people, not for people wanting to play bride. You're wasting your time. As for the post beneath this one, about "Does your boyfriend know if you're on the knot," if it freaks him out that you're on his site, you should get off of it! You're only scaring him away. He will soon see how crazy you are and run for the hills! It's pitiful. Get a life!
Posted by CantWate2BWed[/QUOTE]

Please back up your accusations. I want examples. Who is not engaged and planning their wedding?

CantWate2BWed · December 2010

I lurk on all of the planning boards. and I think that it's sad that you not engaged girls post on those boards too. If you're going to be on this site at all, at least stay in your own yard.

loopy82 · December 2010

I'm calling a troll. You are making very broad statements.

CASK85 · December 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_im-lurker-but-made-account-say-this?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:7f59c8c2-7f97-4a2b-a0c7-b3a0ca9e5bd2Post:32f216f3-b33b-4a3d-b14d-692b6a0f2ad6">Re: I'm a lurker, but I made an account to say this.</a>:
[QUOTE]I lurk on all of the planning boards. and I think that it's sad that you not engaged girls post on those boards too. If you're going to be on this site at all, at least stay in your own yard.
Posted by CantWate2BWed[/QUOTE]
There is a new bully in the school yard tonight. . . <div>
</div><div>I'm going to bed. Have fun with this one, ladies :) Miss you all! </div>

loves2shop4shoes · December 2010

BAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHA! Instead of focusing on being high and mighty, why don't you focus on becoming literate...because CLEARLY after "lurking" you still cannot read what it says in the STICKY on the top of NEY.

Here't the link to that sticky again:

http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_welcome-not-engaged-yet

You're clearly nothing more than a self-righteous biitch with an inferiority complex. You came onto NEY and wrote this post, attempting to rip perfect strangers to shreds, for no other reason than to make yourself feel validated. Grow up. Oh, and go sell crazy some place else. We're all stocked up here.

SeaTea02 · December 2010

I guess she missed all the posts, like the intro post, that discourage girls planning before they are engaged. Lurk better next time, genius.

Now be gone before someone drops a house on you.

sparkles88 · December 2010

Well until TK stops giving people the option of creating an account as a bride, groom, bridesmaid, groomsman, event planner, etc. I think these people have every right to be on here. And if you were a lurker, I think you would know a lot of the ladies on NEY are NOT planning a wedding before they get engaged.

GreenPepperBurger · December 2010

You took the time to track several girls' posts, create an account and tell us all off.

Now, who's the pitiful one?

And it's spelled W-A-I-T, you imbecile.

TheMutleys · December 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_im-lurker-but-made-account-say-this?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:7f59c8c2-7f97-4a2b-a0c7-b3a0ca9e5bd2Post:cff15ae6-5b7e-4258-8a40-d5930bed5124">I'm a lurker, but I made an account to say this.</a>:
[QUOTE]I can't believe some of you girls on this website are planning your wedding before being engaged. Don't you think there is a reason that your boyfriend won't propose to you? He's probably terrified of what you will become if you already aren't patient enough to wait until the proposal to begin to plan your wedding! This site is for engaged people, not for people wanting to play bride. You're wasting your time. As for the post beneath this one, about "Does your boyfriend know if you're on the knot," if it freaks him out that you're on his site, you should get off of it! You're only scaring him away. He will soon see how crazy you are and run for the hills! It's pitiful. Get a life!
Posted by CantWate2BWed[/QUOTE]

Hey Wate, are you even engaged?

Then again, I agree with most of what you said.

I'm betting that Wate is her new last name.

loopy82 · December 2010

Sea - Good pic! Love it.

CantWate2BWed · December 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_im-lurker-but-made-account-say-this?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:7f59c8c2-7f97-4a2b-a0c7-b3a0ca9e5bd2Post:eb5a945b-a095-4090-8dfe-726c122d5f9d">Re: I'm a lurker, but I made an account to say this.</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to I'm a lurker, but I made an account to say this. : Please back up your accusations. I want examples. Who is not engaged and planning their wedding?
Posted by loopy82[/QUOTE]

How about SeaTea posting in September 2012 about when she is planning to buy her dress?

I am not ignorant to what the sticky says. Just because a sticky says it does not mean that you abide by it.

desertsun · December 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_im-lurker-but-made-account-say-this?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:7f59c8c2-7f97-4a2b-a0c7-b3a0ca9e5bd2Post:32f216f3-b33b-4a3d-b14d-692b6a0f2ad6">Re: I'm a lurker, but I made an account to say this.</a>:
[QUOTE]I lurk on all of the planning boards. and I think that it's sad that you not engaged girls post on those boards too. If you're going to be on this site at all, at least stay in your own yard.
Posted by CantWate2BWed[/QUOTE]<div>
</div><div>I bet if you report posters straying from the "appropriate" board to Knot Annie, she would totally ban them!</div><div>
</div><div>Right. *snort*

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luvdncn90 · December 2010

I have lurked on this board for a while now, and it so clearly obvious that all of these lovely ladies are not, and completely discourage, planning a wedding before you are engaged.

You should probably lurk a bit more, and then you'll see how very wrong you are. They much more prefer talking about mashed potatos and engagement monkeys and things of that sort, which is much more hilarious. If you consider all of that wedding planning... well you're just crazy.

CantWate2BWed · December 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_im-lurker-but-made-account-say-this?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:7f59c8c2-7f97-4a2b-a0c7-b3a0ca9e5bd2Post:409dacc4-1e04-41f2-88d6-7ca87dae4c2b">Re: I'm a lurker, but I made an account to say this.</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to I'm a lurker, but I made an account to say this. : Hey Wate, are you even engaged? Then again, I agree with most of what you said. I'm betting that Wate is her new last name.
Posted by TheMutleys[/QUOTE]

dingdingding

someone's clever.

of course I'm engaged. I wouldn't be on this site if I wasn't.

SeaTea02 · December 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_im-lurker-but-made-account-say-this?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:7f59c8c2-7f97-4a2b-a0c7-b3a0ca9e5bd2Post:161a1dff-d67f-481b-b185-3ea5ad881b74">Re: I'm a lurker, but I made an account to say this.</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I'm a lurker, but I made an account to say this. : How about SeaTea posting in September 2012 about when she is planning to buy her dress? I am not ignorant to what the sticky says. Just because a sticky says it does not mean that you abide by it.
Posted by CantWate2BWed[/QUOTE]<div>
</div><div>Yeah see bia, the thing is I post over there on occasion but never about my self. I talk to the other women about their weddings and give advice to them. I have zero planning going on. </div><div>
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Elle1036 · December 2010

TROOOOLLLL in the dungeons!!!

Just thought you ought to know.

GreenPepperBurger · December 2010

You have to collapse now, Elle.

CantWate2BWed · December 2010

SeaTea, you said you won't purchase until a year and a half out. That's YOUR wedding. From some other searching I did, it appears that you also have booked your venue and have a budget. Yet your boyfriend still won't propose... hmmm. Wonder why!

What about this trainwreck of a thread from last month? I don't think that the only conversations here are about side dishes.
http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_dirty-laundry_.0

bsidebella · December 2010

Hi. You sound like a real peach.

Guess what? I'm engaged. Guess what also? A few other girls on here? Engaged. And, even further, some are *gasp* married.

Just because we're on the "Not Engaged Yet" board doesn't mean we're not all not engaged. Also, where in the title "Not Engaged Yet" does it constitute as "planning before the ring"?

If the site is only for "engaged people", I guess there shouldn't be boards for moms and maids or students, eh?

GreenPepperBurger · December 2010

Nice of you to dredge up a thread where people admit their crazy.

You lose again, troll.

Elle1036 · December 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_im-lurker-but-made-account-say-this?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:7f59c8c2-7f97-4a2b-a0c7-b3a0ca9e5bd2Post:8c5b3e7f-64ea-403c-9ac4-c5630d37c4b1">Re: I'm a lurker, but I made an account to say this.</a>:
[QUOTE]You have to collapse now, Elle.
Posted by GreenPepperBurger[/QUOTE]

I wasn't sure how to include that in my post. I was going to write *faints*, but then I thought "that's stupid, because how would I type it if I were really unconscious."

So I'm just letting the collapse be implied.

CantWate2BWed · December 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_im-lurker-but-made-account-say-this?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:7f59c8c2-7f97-4a2b-a0c7-b3a0ca9e5bd2Post:c87cc25d-db6e-41f2-8389-553b85c680dd">Re: I'm a lurker, but I made an account to say this.</a>:
[QUOTE]Hi. You sound like a real peach. Guess what? I'm engaged. Guess what also? A few other girls on here? Engaged. And, even further, some are *gasp* married. Just because we're on the "Not Engaged Yet" board doesn't mean we're not all not engaged. Also, where in the title "Not Engaged Yet" does it constitute as "planning before the ring"? If the site is only for "engaged people", I guess there shouldn't be boards for moms and maids or students, eh?
Posted by bsidebella[/QUOTE]

Moms and maids are at least helping to plan a wedding and the students board is for engaged people who are also students, not just students in general, so that's irrelevant to your point.

Obviously my post was not aimed toward fellow engaged people.

No I don't think that married people should be on here, that is what the nest is for! But at least they can get their man to commit.

And GreenPepperBurger, I don't lose. Just because someone admits that they're crazy, doesn't make them any less.

GreenPepperBurger · December 2010

No...I'm pretty sure you lose anyway.

SeaTea02 · December 2010

<div><span style="font-size:10.8333px;" class="Apple-style-span">In Response to <a style="text-decoration:none;font-weight:normal;color:#1f1f1f;" href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_september-2012-weddings_dress?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:a464c18c-2e4d-469b-8eae-3865079cb9cfDiscussion:092e0db5-a0dd-42ae-864d-fa5638495ff7Post:c29c189e-9b27-47a9-b1bc-e478d2a46a64">Re: The Dress</a>:
[QUOTE]Styles can change and you might change your mind. There are plenty of girls on some of the other boards who ended up with more than one dress because they shopped too early. Despite what some will tell you, depending on where/what designer you go with your dress can take 9+ months to come in. My sister's did and it wasn't custom or anything. <strong>I would prob</strong> purchase about a year and a half out. I want to make sure it arrives, is altered, more than the week before the wedding.
Posted by SeaTea02[/QUOTE]</span></div><div><span style="font-size:10.8333px;" class="Apple-style-span">
</span></div><div><span style="font-size:10.8333px;" class="Apple-style-span">This doesn't say I am. This says what I would do. Learn to read. </span></div><div><span style="font-size:10.8333px;" class="Apple-style-span">
</span></div>Do you know why I have a venue?? Because my sister's wedding was called off earlier this year and the venue was already paid for. I am taking a bullet for my parents and agreed to get married there so they didn't lose 20k. I actually really hate this hotel. Do you know why I have a budget? It was my sister's budget. <div>
</div><div> We aren't engaged yet because we are young and we don't need to be right now. Do you know what helped me realize this? The wonderful women on this board.
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</div><div>I really don't need to validate my self to you any further.</div></div><div>
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Narwhal · December 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_im-lurker-but-made-account-say-this?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:7f59c8c2-7f97-4a2b-a0c7-b3a0ca9e5bd2Post:59c65ce1-759f-419a-8847-51f7372c01cd">Re: I'm a lurker, but I made an account to say this.</a>:
[QUOTE]TROOOOLLLL in the dungeons!!! Just thought you ought to know.
Posted by Elle1036[/QUOTE]

What's that from? I recognize it.

ETA: As for the thread troll... Meh. It's too late (early?) for this mess.

leia1979 · December 2010

Wow, is that all life is to you? Getting a man to commit? I seriously hope you have other ambitions.

I hung out on NEY before I was engaged. And guess what? I'm engaged now, and we were committed to each other even before that.

Please go away and annoy someone else now. Kthxbai.

AJesteram · December 2010

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_im-lurker-but-made-account-say-this?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:7f59c8c2-7f97-4a2b-a0c7-b3a0ca9e5bd2Post:32f216f3-b33b-4a3d-b14d-692b6a0f2ad6">Re: I'm a lurker, but I made an account to say this.</a>:
[QUOTE]I lurk on all of the planning boards. and I think that it's sad that you not engaged girls post on those boards too. If you're going to be on this site at all, <strong>at least stay in your own yard.</strong>
Posted by CantWate2BWed[/QUOTE]

1. Are we animals now?!

2. Go away, troll.

3. I like the pic SeaTea! It made me giggle <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-laughing.gif" border="0" alt="Laughing" title="Laughing" />

sparkles88 · December 2010

This poster really has it out for you, SeaTea! All of her examples deal with you. Crazy!

I'm a lurker, but I made an account to say this.

Re: I'm a lurker, but I made an account to say this.

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