OK I know I'm 38 and he is 41 this is my 2ND marriage and i have been divorced for 8 years with two children from my 1st marriage . Just so ya know since my divorce I never had a live in Boyfriend I never let men meet my children or anything like that until I met my HTD now with the wedding fast approaching my family are not on board at all they like HTB but its just like "whatever " when I talk about the wedding . We started planing the wedding as a destination wedding but then my mom pouted saying she wanted her family to see it and wanted us to get married here so did his mom so we changed our plans and put all are money into a wedding here . I want to share my excitement with a brunch or something with the ladies of the family and talked to my mother about doing this . She told me to register and truth is all of are household items are old and wore out such a dishes pots and pan ..So I did so I ask are you doing a shower mom and she is like its not the same as your 1st wedding ,People dont care ! I am like REALLY ? Why isn't it like my 1st wedding ? I was young and dumb then married a man I shouldn't of now I am older and wiser and this is my life mate I know this and I am 100 times more excited about getting married then I ever was before it makes me so sad that nobody is excited for us
and if they are not going to get involved why in the world would they insist on a wedding here ? I do not understand in the least what is wrong with these people
OK I just needed to vent lol hopefully someone will understand my pain lol