My name is Amanda. My fiance is a chef, we do catering, but we're trying to decide what to do about the food for our own wedding! It's kinda tricky because we'd love to do our own food, but that's too much trouble, out of the question. We have friends who would love to do it, but we want them to enjoy the party. We know restaurants who could help us out, but again don't want our friends to have to help and not enjoy the wedding. Anyone in the similar situation? I'm also trying to decide between having a dinner for the reception food, or just a lot of hor d'oeuvres, desserts, fruit, and smaller things of the like. Anyone thought about a non "dinner" idea, and just go for the simple things? I'm just getting planning....glad to chat with fellow brides.