Thanks for the kind words in the good morning thread, girls! And for the eaten flower, Vally. I could never kick you in the shins, no matter how frustrated I am.
Manda is a good kid. Better than a lot of teens. I know, I know. I'm hard on her, and I expect a lot more of her than most parents. I had a mortgage at 16; I don't offer much sympathy for that awkward growing up stage. Suck it up, make a plan and get on with it.
I busted her for lying constantly to me, so I took her car for a month, so now she hates me. She locks herself in her room, ignores Chloe, and just thinks she has the toughest, most awful life right now. I want to smack her every time I look at her.
She's graduating in June and has decided to move in with her dad and stay here for her first year, at the community college. I'm fine with that, but she needs to get transcripts to them, get registered with the college, apply for Federal aid and, most importantly, GET A JOB. There's a $2500 scholarship through my company, and I gave her the paperwork Feb. 1. It needs to be postmarked 3.10. I just got it from her this morning, unfinished. I want to strangle her.
J is angry because she's disrespectful to me, and even worse to him, and I'm just exhausted and over it. I'm booking the trip to Disney for 3, and we can buy tickets daily for her if she decides to grow up and be human again and go with us. I'd feel awful leaving her behind, but I know I probably need to just so she'll realize she's an adult and I'm not taking her crap anymore. Being an adult is not sitting in your room, sulking and watching MTv all day. You suck and you need to improve!
Ok, I'm done. Thanks for letting me vent. Whew!