So B and I live with two other couples - my two sorority sisters and their significant others. One couple is engaged, and her fiance just happens to be one of B's fraternity brothers. The other couple have been dating since March, and her boyfriend has been B's friend for like 5 years or something.
We've been having problems with stuff going missing (mainly, food) for quite some time now. When it was just two couples here, it was all fine and dandy. When the third couple moved in, that's when the problems started. I feel like it's safe to say that we know that it's the third couple taking the food.
We keep all our food separate for this reason. We each have our own separate milk, eggs, bread, whatever, including even ketchup! It has been too much of a problem with people taking stuff that is not theirs.
The third couple gets a food stamp card - B and I work and are putting ourselves through school. It's not like we have a bunch of extra money laying around, esp. to spend on food because our roommates take it!
But no one will admit to it - they all four deny it. So clearly someone is just breaking in the house to steal only our food.... *sarcasm*.
The thing is - the girl from the third couple has had her food missing too, and she blames B and I. I can honestly say I've never had something that was not mine. I know they struggle for $$ just as much as we do. And I just wasn't raised that way! She refuses to accept the fact that her fiance is eating her food!
The thing that set me over was last night - we caught him red handed eating our LEFTOVER food from our dinner at Applebees..... That's just disgusting! And they STILL deny it!
So B and I had a long talk last night - it was like it was the straw that broke the camel's back. We're sick of it and want to move out and rent our own place. This is something we'e been talking about doing for awhile. But since starting wedding plan, the realization of the cost has hit us hard. We don't think we can afford to move out and pay for the wedding we want to have, when we want to have it.
I need to move out for my sanity. But I refuse to wait longer to get married. And I refuse to skimp much more on the wedding - I've already given up quite a lot! That's like, taking Barbie's dream house away from her. Or, telling Cinderella that Prince Charming was all a joke.
It just sucks to know that I am stuck here. I'm going crazy! There's only so much more I can take....
Anyway, just had to get this out of my system! If you read this whole thing, I admire you haha.