Anyone else think they'll be a blubbering baby during the ceremony?
I've started looking at ceremony scripts and everytime I find one I like, I literally start tearing up imagining finally saying these words to FI after 8 long years and 2 children together.
When I say tearing up, I mean completely overrun with emotion (in an amazing awesome way). I'm sniffling, blowing my nose, and deep breathing - and this is my reciting the script ALONE just under 3 months out from the real deal.
I have a feeling I'll be bawling before I even walk down the aisle. I'm not usually an overly emotional person but there's something about finally marrying FI after everything we've been through that gets me right in my heart, every time. Other than waterproof makeup, how are you gonna pull your shiz together before walking down the aisle??
Re: Anyone else think they'll be a blubbering baby during the ceremony?
I'm probably in the minority here though.
[QUOTE]I figure that I'm not going to hold back my tears if I start crying. I also don't see myself being blubbering, just some possible tears of happiness welling up in my eyes and falling down my cheek. I think it's sweet when the B&G cry a little bit at weddings and I wouldn't want to hold it all in. I'm probably in the minority here though.
Posted by midgetthemighty[/QUOTE]
I couldnt agree more. It's your wedding day.. why wouldnt you want your emotions to show? It's just makeup.....
Do you think your FI's will end up tearing up?
I will probably be okay when we say our vows, but no promises.
You should practice saying your vows to your mom or dad in front of people. Obivously not FI. lol.
That is what I intend to do.
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about to lose composure.Do you think your FI's will end up tearing up? Posted
by rasp.berry[/QUOTE]
I personally think he will be alright and when I asked he said he would too. My sister thinks he's going to cry though...and then she said that if he does, all bets are off and she will lose it too. LOL
[QUOTE]That's what I was thinking too - I don't think there will be any way to avoid *some* display of emotion. I'm definitely going to cry too! My concern is my ability to actually say my vows without sounding like I'm about to lose composure. Do you think your FI's will end up tearing up?
Posted by rasp.berry[/QUOTE]
I honestly think he will and I wont! HAHA!!
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[QUOTE]That's what I was thinking too - I don't think there will be any way to avoid *some* display of emotion. I'm definitely going to cry too! My concern is my ability to actually say my vows without sounding like I'm about to lose composure. Do you think your FI's will end up tearing up?
Posted by rasp.berry[/QUOTE]
I *know* FI will! He is a very emotional guy! He's already gotten teary eyed more times during planning than I have! lol ..That is one reason I don't mind doing a first look! lol
I'm with you ladies who cry during wedding shows during the vows. Witnessing someone get married (even if I don't know them) is such a special experience and is completely relatable to any long term, dedicated relationship. I tend to have strong empathetic emotions, allowing me to feel what others are feeling in that moment so I usually get caught up in it.
After having my kids, I still tear up during baby shows remembering our experience in the labour and delivery room hahaha. That's kind of why I started thinking of this whole topic in the first place. I had the amazing opportunity to witness birth from a different perspective when I was my sister's "coach" back in November. It was such an intense feeling of emotion, unlike anything else I've ever experienced. I thought I was going to explode from the inside out when my nephew was about to be born.
Actually though, as tough as he always tries to be, I think he might get a lil emotional. When I just played him the SONG I am going to walk down to, he got a little teary within the first couple bars. Yeah, he's toast! :P (But I might be too much of a crying mess to call him on it!)
[QUOTE]I don't know if I am going to cry because I may be too nervous. When I think about our wedding day I get so freakin' nervous and my stomach starts turning. I know I'm going to be a mess the day before and probably off and on the day of. I<strong> am seriously going to take some Tylenol PM the night before, otherwise I know I'll be too anxious to sleep</strong>. I didn't get much sleep the night before my bridal shower, so I know I won't sleep the night before the wedding.
Posted by WEEZIE918[/QUOTE]
yep, me too!!
And I also agree with Jess that a man who isn't afraid to cry is sign of strength.
[QUOTE]I don't know if I am or not. I haven't cried at anything so far and I thought I would have. Out of everyone, my <strong>FFIL will definitely be crying!
</strong>Posted by ncd5015[/QUOTE]
Mine too! Heck, there's going to be a little of crying I think. I will absolutely lose it if my brother cries though. That is rare.
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Anyone else think they'll be a blubbering baby during the ceremony? : Mine too! Heck, there's going to be a little of crying I think.<strong> I will absolutely lose it if my brother cries though. That is rare.
</strong>Posted by midgetthemighty[/QUOTE]
same here!!
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I will definitely be crying. I plan on having everything waterproof and my makeup artist mentioned that she teaches all her brides to blot in a way that won't ruin her makeup. Can I just ask though, what is the tissue situation at the altar? Do any emotional brides have any plans in place for their MOH or someone to have something for blotting?
I'm not sure if FI will cry. He got a tiny bit teary when he proposed, but other than that I've only seen him cry a couple times, once when his grandather had a stroke and once at my grandfather's wake when I was really losing it. I would so love it if he did tear up a little, but I think he'll try to hold it together. His family is very anti emotions of any sort.
So I will just have to suck it up and be a blubbering fool that day