My wedding was three months ago. All of our guests had given a gift within a month after the wedding, with the exception of 5 of my husband’s closest friends, which has us perplexed and, honestly, a little hurt. We have no indication they did not intend to get a gift (all are financially ok and received a gift from us at their wedding) or are planning a large group gift. I also know some people think you have 12 months to give a gift, but we don’t think that is the case here. The thing we are most concerned about is that they gave us a gift that somehow we did not receive (we have moved a few times), or they simply forgot they hadn’t given a gift (could be likely). We understand we did not throw a wedding to expect gifts, and we can accept if they consciously decided to not give a gift for some reason. However if I forgot to give a wedding gift to a good friend, I would appreciate a reminder as I would hate to have lingering feelings hurt the relationship in any way. Should we approach these friends in some way or just forget about it?