The other thread finally got me to post this, but I didn't want to thread-jack, so I started my own. I totally despise the clanking of the glasses, with a passion. I hate going to weddings that do it, and I just end up annoyed as heck by the end of dinner. Ignoring it was mentioned, but I don't really want to do that, I just want something else. I'm also not a big fan of the singing a song, or having to mimic other married couples (I've been to a few weddings that did this). FI's cousin actually did the donation box thing, but it wasn't a charity thing--it was for their honeymoon. I hated it and so did everyone else I talked to--for obvious reasons. Anyway, someone on the previous thread mentioned having the guest "draw" a Hershey's Kiss from a vase, and then either the B&G kiss, or the person has to return to their table and kiss someone at their table (depending on the wrapper color). Has anyone else ever seen this? This is something I would actually like, but don't want to do it if there are too many objections. My other problem is that I feel like we would need to draw attention to the person when they go up there, otherwise no one will notice and it will be pointless. I could probably get the DJ involved, but don't know what should be said or done that would work. Any ideas will be appreciated. TIA!