I am an active duty military female and I wanted to add some military into the wedding ceremony but nothing to blatant. Would it be cheesy to wear combat boots for the ceremony itself and then change into high heels for the reception? I'd like to buy some new black concoran combat boots but not sure if it'll go too good with my dress. Any opinions? I know after doing a google search for other brides doing the same thing I came upon a website that mentioned another bride wearing combat boots for her ceremony and then making it a big thing when changing into her high heels for the reception that indicated her struggle as a single parent was now over as she was married and had a partner to help her out. This kinda applies to me as well as I'm a single parent of three children but that wasn't the reason for my wearing combat boots. And if I wear combat boots should the bridesmaids do the same? Even if they aren't military?