FI is getting so excited he jumped the gun and mailed a handful of the invites. Not mad at him, as I find his excitement over the wedding sexy, lol
Despite etiquette we did put adult only Reception on the RSVPs. We had our reasons and we stuck to it... We also had a spot for how many would be attending... I guess that's where we went really wrong. We did this as the bulk of our guests have traveling spouses, if they are both invited and only 1 is attending we do need to know that ahead of time. What's done is done.
That being said one of the invites he sent out was to MR AND MRS. The STD was to mr and mrs too and in conversation with them where they have brought up the wedding, FI has said how were dong adult only (other than kids in the wedding party) They RSVPd for FIVE ppl. I asked FI who the other 3 were and he said it has to be their teen children (17 yr old daughter and 2 foster children who are 16/17).
Now my FI is feeling really guilty for sending the handful of invites out too early. I told him now or later their response would have been the same. Just goes to show ppl do not always pay attention to the mr and mrs or "family" on invitations. FI and I are torn on having to call and say were sorry but your teens aren't invited or just leaving it and letting them come.