So my wedding is next month, my FI is EXTREMELY shy (he can't stand attention, it makes him sweat and turn red) and so we had planned to have a short sweet ceremony wtih no frilly extras (READ: processional, vows, kiss, sign registry, recessional. No unity sand, no unity candle, no rose ceremony, no readings, no extras). Our officiant has advised us that this is too short and everyone will think they're being "punk'd". I'd hoped to make it as short as possible to spare my poor FI the embarassment of standing at the front of the church longer than absolutely necessary. Thoughts?