We need to find a DJ and photographer for our wedding. Our reception is at the Poughkeepsie Grand Hotel. Any suggestions? We don't want a DJ that is over the top. We want everyone to have fun, but we don't want someone who is going to try and be center stage. We also don't like "props". We don't really know what we want in photography except that we don't want someone who is very expensive. We'd appreciate any suggestions! Thanks!