My soon to be husband is having a big problem with accepting money from my parents. They are giving us the majority of our budget but is having a hard time swallowing his pride, even though he knows without the money we would not be having a destination wedding for 50 people. My parents want me to tell them what our bills are and then they will reimburse us. He feels that they should just "gift" us the money and we should be able to use it at our discretion. I don't know how to make him understand that although its a "GIFT", that they still deserve to know where THEIR money is being spent. HELP I HAVE A HEADSTRONG GROOM!!