Sooo, being on this board and new ladies get engaged we all say "congratulations".
I have a good friend who is adament that proper etiquette is to say "best wishes" to the bride and "congratulation" to the groom. therefore, before I post on TK that's what I ALWAYS think of!
Personally I don't really care, congratulations all around. Has any one else heard of this/abide by this?