My niece's wedding is in 3 weeks. My husband and I have not received an invitation to the wedding. We also did not receive an invitation to the engagement party, until someone told the bride we had not received that invitation. I was told a member of the wedding party had not received an invitation either. Anyway, I have received an invitation to the bridal shower. Do I go to the bridal shower, even though I am not invited to the wedding? It's going to be a huge wedding, and my out of state relatives have been calling saying they received their wedding invitations and are coming to the wedding. I would think since there was a goof on the engagement invitation, the bride would have done everything possible to make sure I received a wedding invitation. However, I don't feel, I should say anything to my niece (the bride) about not receiving the wedding invitation, because just maybe for some odd reason she doesn't want me there. Besides, I don't want to do anything to upset her right before her wedding . So, what I do?