My boyfriend was originally going to propose to me around January 2012 while we were still living in another state. Some big changes happened before he could propose and so now he is waiting until we are settled in our home state before he proposes. The reason this is important is because this means I have NO IDEA how long he has been sitting on this ring. Also, the ring is from a pawn shop. I know this because it is the exact ring from a picture he showed me when he was shopping. The problem?
I found the ring the other day and I do not like it. At the time I saw the picture, I was just so excited that he was actually looking that I think it seemed like I liked that ring. In my defense, it looked a lot better in the picture.
So now I don't know what to do because technically he bought the ring that he thought I really liked and i have no idea if returning/ exchanging is even an option. The only thing I have going for me is that this thing has massive amounts of stones in the band and is probably at least 2 sizes too big (you know I had to try that sucker on when I found it!). I feel really bad that I don't like it but he didn't really do a whole lot of consulting with me since I want as much of it as possible to be a surprise. I dont think he really consulted any freinds or family either. The only thing I said was that I wanted something unique and it is....just not my kind of unique. ugh....I'm a bad person.
Please help! what do I do besides crawl under a rock and die?