Today i learned that the girl i chose for my maid of honor (my best friend of 10 years, or so i thought) just informed me that she no longer wants to be "best" friends, she didnt we couldn't be friends. So, do i continue making plans with 3 bridesmaids, with hopes she'll change her mind? or do i plan for only the 2? I've basically maid my "Second" best friend my maid of honor, she understood why i didnt orginally. Plus, shes helped me make all the current decisions that i've made. She told me not to sweat it the wedding is next year and things will turn out for the better in the long run. Can somebody help with this? I'm just so confused about this!
And another question:
I told the bridesmaids to choose their own dresses, since its a small weddinng, less than 50 people most likely. The dresses are suppose to be short and white
(nothing over the top, that compliments my dress and colors) and accessories with be a grass green. A guest i invited told me not to use white with BM's. They may clash with my dress. Is this a bad idea?