FI sent me an email asking for my password to TK. I called and asked him why he needed, and he turned it around on me and asked why it was an issue. I said it was because I post on TK message boards (which he already knew), and I didn't feel comfortable giving him access to my online identity. He was offended and asked what I had to hide, what was I saying, etc. I said that I don't need to hide anything; it's just that I don't feel comfortable giving out my passwords to websites on which I have an online identity. I post on other MB's and don't give him the passwords to those either.
He wants to look at Best of TK lists for photographers, etc so I offered to create another account so that he could do that. He told me not to bother and that he's doing this (the photog research) for me and that I can do it myself or he'll just give me whatever he wants to give me. He doesn't think it makes sense for him to have his own log-in since I already have one. It was a pretty heated argument. I asked him why it was a big deal if I created a login for him that is tied to the email address we use for the wedding. He said he had to hang up because he was in the middle of work.
I think part of him is upset that I won't "trust" him with the password and part is upset because he's not getting his way. I have no problem with telling him my SN and him looking at posts, but I just don't give anyone the passwords to my message board accounts. I think he's being a brat, especially since I offered to create another account for him that's not even tied to his personal email address. I could have done that in the first place, and he never would have known. I just didn't realize he'd get so upset. Am I being ridiculous here? Any advice? Thanks.
I'm also remembering that he once refused to give me us Wall Street Journal online password so that I could read articles that were only for paid subscribers. And I was doing work-related research. He doesn't post on WSJ message boards AFAIK. I have given him passwords to other sites before (including Amazon where he could just buy things on my CC whenever he wanted), just not ones where I post.