My dad died when I was 9 and there have been so many influential people in my life since then...rather than choose between them I was planning to walk myself down the aisle. My mom remairried 3 years ago. She recently suggested I have my half brother (who I have only met once, but adore) to walk me down the aisle since he looks just like my dad and is a part of him. So I thought I would be polite and run it past my step dad and he said he would be hurt if I asked my half brother so I ended up asking my step-dad to walk me down the aisle which is not what I wanted, but I didnt want to offend him or anyone else either...so now I feel like in order to make everyone else happy, I have to sacrafice what I want....I am almost to the point of not wanting a wedding, but rather eloping somewhere instead...