What would u do?

Shlby81 · October 2012

These r my options.

cwaggoner07 · October 2012

Here's what you do:

You don't get married.

You establish a plan to move out and live on your own (even if it's a 5-year plan, make a plan to not live with Mom or Dad).

Once you are an adult, meaning you pay your own bills, you can revisit these options.

Shlby81 · October 2012

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[QUOTE]Here's what you do: You don't get married. You establish a plan to move out and live on your own (even if it's a 5-year plan, make a plan to not live with Mom or Dad). Once you are an adult, meaning you pay your own bills, you can revisit these options.
Posted by cwaggoner07[/QUOTE]

I have my own apartment. Been on my own sinse I was 17. Fiancé talked me into no renewing my lease which runs out in December. Supposed to move with him then but now I am nervise.

If I move to MA its to help my father with his resterant/ bakery.

lyndausvi · October 2012

options 1 or 2 are out.

I don't know enough about your family to know if 3 or 4 is better.

JoanE2012 · October 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: What would u do? : I have my own apartment. Been on my own sinse I was 17. Fiancé talked me into no renewing my lease which runs out in December. Supposed to move with him then but now I am nervise. If I move to MA its to help my father with his resterant/ bakery.
Posted by Shlby81[/QUOTE]

I think a good plan for you would be to finish school. Your spelling is atrocious. (That means really bad).

J&K10910 · October 2012

Stop calling your mother Mommy, FFS. It makes me uncomfortable.

KellyBrian2013 · October 2012

I vote Option 6: Stop trolling on TK and get a real life. Troll.

samantha24p · October 2012

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[QUOTE]I vote Option 6: Stop trolling on TK and get a real life. Troll.
Posted by KellyBrian2013[/QUOTE]

I 2nd this option. I also vote you don't move to Ma.

RamonaFlowers · October 2012

I'd really come up with better crap to troll with. I see you TRIED with the whole "FI might have slept with his 1/2 sister" thing ... but seriously, we get waaaaaaay better incest-related MUD around here.

Or, at least we used to.

Yes, people, I'm still holding out for the girl who allegedly ran off with her FI's dad to come back and say that she wound up marrying the dad at the wedding she originally planned with her FI. I will NEVER let that one go.

Legu · October 2012

In Response to Re:What would u do?:[QUOTE]I'd really come up with better crap to troll with. I see you TRIED with the whole "FI might have slept with his 1/2 sister" thing ... but seriously, we get waaaaaaay better incestrelated MUD around here.Or, at least we used to.Yes, people, I'm still holding out for the girl who allegedly ran off with her FI's dad to come back and say that she wound up marrying the dad at the wedding she originally planned with her FI. I will NEVER let that one go. Posted by RamonaFlowers[/QUOTE]

Omg I remember this! It was just after I found my way over to the E board...

Yeah, trolls now are pretty lame and far too easily called out.

Here's hoping a proper entertaining one shows up again soon :]

StephBeanWed61502 · October 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re:What would u do?: Omg I remember this! It was just after I found my way over to the E board... Yeah, trolls now are pretty lame and far too easily called out. Here's hoping a proper entertaining one shows up again soon :]
Posted by Legu[/QUOTE]

<div>Legu, I know this is old news and completely off-topic, but every time I see your profile pic with the sonogram of your little guy, I get a little bit mad at your ex-FI all over again. What. A. Douchecanoe. </div><div>
</div><div>ETA: And Shlby, I chose option four because it's the only one that didn't use the cringeworthy phrases "my man" or "Mommy." Gross.</div>

rachelm13 · October 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: What would u do? : I think a good plan for you would be to finish school. Your spelling is atrocious. (That means really bad).
Posted by JoanE2012[/QUOTE]

I sincerely hope that the Troll is kidding with these spelling errors.

If not, Shlby, please run to the nearest school and enroll immediately.

button6004 · October 2012

Shelby, arent you expecting? If that part of your story wasnt MUD, then you need to make a decision based on how it will affect your child. I am by no means advocating you staying with your FI, but of options 3 and 4 you need to decide which is the best fit for your child.

peekaboo2011 · October 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: What would u do? : I have my own apartment. Been on my own sinse I was 17. Fiancé talked me into no renewing my lease which runs out in December. Supposed to move with him then but now I am nervise. If I move to MA its to help my father with his resterant/ bakery.
Posted by Shlby81[/QUOTE]

<div>If your lease doesn't end until December, and it's just now the beginning of October, don't you still have time to renew?</div><div>
</div><div>
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peekaboo2011 · October 2012

I thought "straight edge" were those goth kids with the mohawks?

peekaboo2011 · October 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: What would u do? : I thought it was referring to a ruler.
Posted by LingerLonger1[/QUOTE]

<div>Maybe she can help me un-kink my lines then.</div>

rachelm13 · October 2012

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[QUOTE]I thought "straight edge" were those goth kids with the mohawks?
Posted by peekaboo2011[/QUOTE]

I also thought they were adrenaline junkies that skateboard?

button6004 · October 2012

Oh good gravy.

Shelby, honey, you need to get off of these boards with your crazy talk and get some help (and some tutoring). Seriously. And now I choose option 3, because I'd prefer you stay as far away from my home state as possible.

courtski2004 · October 2012

Get away from your incestuous 'man' and separate yourself from your mommy. And, for the love of dog, use spell check. For someone who wants to be taken seriously, you won't make any headway in getting real advice until you can spell and punctuate. At least try.

OwningAHome1981 · October 2012

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[QUOTE]I vote Option 5. ContactTLC and pitch your life as a reality TV show.
Posted by StageManager14[/QUOTE]

Option 7- learn to spell (OP, not you lol)

Legu · October 2012

In Response to Re:What would u do?:[QUOTE]In Response to Re: What would u do?:Get away from your incestuous 'man' and separate yourself from your mommy. And, for the love of dog, use spell check. For someone who wants to be taken seriously, you won't make any headwaynbsp;in gettingnbsp;real advice until you can spell and punctuate. At least try.Posted by courtski2004This gave me a chuckle. Posted by LingerLonger1[/QUOTE]

Seconded.

And Stage, thanks :] You know what though? I have everything all sorted, got all his stuff together... All I footage do now is wait for my lil guy to come along :]

Legu · October 2012

Well that's a peculiar autocorrect... I definitely wrote Steph... Stafe: my last post was a reply to StephBeans post somewhere further up the page, there's definitely nothing in your coffee, I promise [although, I do feel the need to insert an evil laugh here...] Or, babybrain has hit the point that I now just create entire conversations in my head with random interwebs people's, and I'm really hoping it ain't got that crazy yet... ETA... And just what a Stafe is, I'm not entirely sure. Now I'm just gonna blame fat fingers and supertired. As for my original comment, Steph, you're very kind, thank you.

courtski2004 · October 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re:What would u do? : Either Legu just outted herself or someone slipped something into my afternoon coffee. I am so confused by this post???
Posted by StageManager14[/QUOTE]

I thought the same thing! I knew there was an auto-correct fail in there but then I really had to ponder the 'lil guy' thing--hadn't it been uncovered that there was no pregnancy or was that a reading comprehension fail on my part?

Then I wondered if I had completely mixed the teenage trolls up. Amber/Shelby, I just can't keep track anymore. Then I gave up and realized that I really didn't give a sh!t anyway.

Shlby81 · October 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: What would u do? : If your lease doesn't end until December, and it's just now the beginning of October, don't you still have time to renew?
Posted by peekaboo2011[/QUOTE]

I want to move out west now. What do u think? I can't renew it now bc landlady has someone moving in in janubery.

ponyprose · October 2012

Yeah, I heard janubery is a big month for moving...

Shelby, for the love of all that is holy and good, focus on yourself and improving your education (which is seriously lacking and painful to witness). I hope to god you're a troll, though, because the whole thing is entirely too sad otherwise.

peekaboo2011 · October 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: What would u do? : I want to move out west now. What do u think? I can't renew it now bc landlady has someone moving in in janubery.
Posted by Shlby81[/QUOTE]

<div>Here, let me draw you a life plan.</div><div>
</div><div>1. Break up with your FI.</div><div>2. Save all of your money that isn't going to bills/food between now and JANUARY.</div><div>3. Move to somewhere west of Louisiana. Texas might be a good fit for you.</div><div>4. Get a job.</div><div>5. Go to school.</div><div>6. Focus on that school and improving yourself.</div><div>7. Once improved to manageable level, find halfway decent human being for boyfriend.</div>

Legu · October 2012

Woo... Missed that before... Did Court just call me a troll?

I've never been called a troll before. No, Court, I am not a troll. And my pregnancy is very real, and I have all the scan pics etc to prove it, along with a rapidly growing belly. Troll status "back in the day" [says me, with still relative newness] was almost worth it... There used to be some effort, at least. These trolls now though, the Shlby/Amber variety... They're boring and busted before their original post is complete. Where'd all the imagination go, anyways?

Shlby81 · October 2012

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[QUOTE]Woo... Missed that before... Did Court just call me a troll?

:D I've never been called a troll before.

No, Court, I am not a troll. And my pregnancy is very real, and I have all the scan pics etc to prove it, along with a rapidly growing belly.
Troll status "back in the day" [says me, with still relative newness] was almost worth it... There used to be some effort, at least.
These trolls now though, the Shlby/Amber variety... They're boring and busted before their original post is complete.

Where'd all the imagination go, anyways?
Posted by Legu[/QUOTE]

u r the pot that called the kennel black

missfrodo · October 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re:What would u do? : u r the pot that called the kennel black
Posted by Shlby81[/QUOTE]

Woof!

(Sorry, I couldn't resist!)

RamonaFlowers · October 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re:What would u do? : u r the pot that called the kennel black
Posted by Shlby81[/QUOTE]

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Miller2213 · October 2012

My advice: Look at your signature, "Live life like it is your last day". Where would you want to spend your last day? In ME or MA? With your mother, father or fiance? In your response lies the answer.

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