I LOVE LOVE LOVE my FMIL....she is just like another mother to me. Here is the thing...she is supper religious and has told me point blank "I will not come to the reception if there is alcohol" My fiancé and I want alcohol at the reception BUT we do not want to disrespect his mothers life style. My mother and father are paying for the wedding and would like to serve alcohol at the reception. Since my FMIL is not paying for the wedding, the easy fix would be to tell her "If you are not paying for the wedding then you have no say so as to what is served at the wedding" HOWEVER...I do not want to disrespect her because she means a great deal to me and the day just wouldn't be right without her. WHAT DO I DO????