Are you doing one or both?? How are you handing the removal of the garter: -going all out with your groom under the dress removing it with his teeth, -slipping it down to about the knee and doing a classy removal, -skipping the public removal and just having him toss it?? My FI doesn't care, but doesn't want to remove it (his family is very conservative and it would be embarrassing for both of us), I am not even sure if it is a used tradition anymore... help???