Hello- My fiance Roz and I are getting married on 10/2. She's half Chinese on her dad's side but not much up on the culture so doesn't the answer to this question. Because of a rift in that family, I'm unable to ask her dad any questions about Chinese culture or traditions in their family. Her grandparents will be there and are very traditional. English is their second language (Cantonese is their first) as they didn't come to the states until the 50's. I swear that I remember reading something once about a tradition in which the groom presents to the parents and grandparents a gift of four pastries. Am I making this up? Has anyone ever heard of this and if so, what would they be? If this is not in fact tradition and there is something I should know about, something that IS traditional for the groom to do, please let me know. Basically I adore her grandparents and want them to know that I'm honored to be marrying their granddaughter and to have them as part of my family as well. Make sense?ANY help would be greatly appreciated.Best-