Thanks for all the great recommendations - we ended up booking the Hyeholde, which had the date we wanted (december 19), has good food, and also a fireplace! The list is 80 people, and its a cozy little place. I loooved the Mayernick center, but it seemed like a lot of work to do since it's catered and you'd have to bring in the linens, dishes, etc, and I'm trying to minimize that sort of stuff/additional planning. I'm still looking for a photographer but I have a lot of good recommendations on that as well. My issue now: DJ. I suppose I will need one to play music for the ceremony (processional and recessional, right?) and I'm looking for any info. I have been to so many weddings where a terrible DJ has really soured the event, so I'm nervous. I just don't want the cheesy-obnoxious thing going on, and I really want someone to respect the play list and do not play list. Thoughts? Thanks!