Robey,

tastyburger · August 2009

I'm lounging on Calie's chaise.

FallinAgain · August 2009

I really think confronting her is going to suggest that she has some power in the situation and I don't think that's wise, but you gotta do what you gotta do to get some closure.

mrs.R.tobe · August 2009

I'm going to confront her about her dirty looks she is giving me and the attitude. I think if I said what I have to say, we will all be better off. I am not going to freak out or go crazy.

Mrs.Expchic · August 2009

For giving you dirty looks? Are you 12?

GroomzMcFinehiney · August 2009

I think you should totally confront her. And I think you should get one of those huge foam fingers and wave it in her face while you're calling her out. And be sure to thrown in a Oh No You Di'in every now and then for effect. It will solve all your problems, marital and otherwise.

Irishgrl417 · August 2009

Oh, the plot thickens. I must've missed the part about this woman being married too.I agree that even if you manage to remain calm, confronting her won't do any good. Maybe if you would have (not of) said something when it first happened, you could've justified it. But doing it now just makes it seem like you've been sitting around plotting your revenge and gives her more power than she deserves.

buddhagouda · August 2009

I truly wish I had a camera to witness this confirmation. It would be beautiful. Robe, seriously, confronting her for giving you "dirty looks" is not going to solve anything. It's just going to make you look like a crazy, jealous wife and give her power to feel like the abused one. I honestly can't understand why if it is this big of a deal to you, your husband is still with the team. Have you told him how much this is bothering you?

CaliopeSpidrman · August 2009

Robe, the issue is not that she is giving you dirty looks. It's that you care she is giving you dirty looks. Seriously, you're losing your mind over this. If you confront her, you're going to look like a crazy jealous wife because that's exactly what you are. You need to get some therapy.

AngieP900 · August 2009

Robe, from your posts you remind me of my friend Amy. The last time my friend Amy planned on calmly confronting a woman about a potential man issue, Amy ended up putting her cigarette out on this woman's face. I think you should take up kickboxing.

mrs.R.tobe · August 2009

Confronting her for continuing to dissrespect me after I have been more than understanding. She has not let it go either.

GroomzMcFinehiney · August 2009

You should also call her Missy when you confront her.Who do you think you are giving me dirty looks, Missy?That will really get her goat.

FallinAgain · August 2009

Disrespecting you how? Dirty looks? She just going to deny that and you're going to look paranoid crazy. FB friending someone you're FB friends with? Again, how do you take issue with that and not look paranoid crazy? Can you even envision a confrontation where you won't look like a jealous, paranoid, bsc wife?

buddhagouda · August 2009

[i]Confronting her for continuing to dissrespect me after I have been more than understanding. She has not let it go either.[/i]Imagined dirty looks and FB friending a friend of yours do NOT count as disrespect to any sane person. We do a lot worse than that to you here.

GroomzMcFinehiney · August 2009

Dear Buddha and Fallin. You are doing it wrong. If you talk Robe out of confronting Soccer Mom, where is the entertainment value? Stop thinking of Robe and Eddie and Soccermom, and think of Me for a change. I need this. I'm gonna have to call for a Cease and Desist.

FallinAgain · August 2009

Good point Groomz. Robe--you should confront this biitch. As someone who plays a lawyer on the interwebz, I advise you to record the whole confrontation and post it on youtube. Just for liability purposes. Yes, that's it.

tastyburger · August 2009

dirty looks! hahahahhahahahahahahaha the disrespect! the nerve! HOW DARE SHE LOOK AT YOU LIKE THAT?

KristenBtobe · August 2009

Oh snap. You should challenge her to a fight behind Taco Bell after school.

mrs.R.tobe · August 2009

But why the attitude with me? What have I done to her? Maybe if I told her husband what was going on, I could understand. I have done nothing!

GroomzMcFinehiney · August 2009

Maybe she smells your crazy and fears that you might tell her husband, and that fear is causing her to react this way. Or maybe she's tired of Eddie telling her that he's going to leave you for her, and she resents you for having him in the morning.

KristenBtobe · August 2009

She's messing with you because you're giving her a reaction.

mrs.R.tobe · August 2009

I have showed no reaction. I just want to say to her, I know what you done, it was wrong, you are being an azz about it, but if your kids going to continue to be part of this team, maybe you should relax on the attitude a bit.

buddhagouda · August 2009

Or maybe she's not doing anything, and you are just paranoid.

GroomzMcFinehiney · August 2009

So your plan is to threaten her kid's opportunity to participate in a sport because she's giving you dirty look, using your influence over your husband to do so? I rate this idea most excellent.

FallinAgain · August 2009

But why the attitude with me? What have I done to her? Maybe if I told her husband what was going on, I could understand. I have done nothing! Dude. You have the man she went after and lost. You won. Accept it gracefully and laugh to yourself at her "attitude."

mrs.R.tobe · August 2009

I just think we should all be civil if they are going to be around. Whats the point of them there if she has a sour puss face and you can cut the tension in the room with a knife.

KristenBtobe · August 2009

Quit reading tension into things. You won that prize Eddie. GOOOOAL. If you feel uncomfortable around her, that's your problemo.

buddhagouda · August 2009

[i]I just think we should all be civil if they are going to be around. Whats the point of them there if she has a sour puss face and you can cut the tension in the room with a knife.[/i]The point is that the kid (who has done nothing wrong BTW) can play soccer. Again, I'd be inclined to believe that a lot of this tension is in your head and nobody else even realizes it's there.

buddhagouda · August 2009

You have no control over another grown woman's actions. Don't kid yourself that you do. You do, however, have some say in your husband's actions. If it really bothers you that much to be around her, he is the one you need to be talking to. Again, he should be quitting the team not trying to push her out. She did not and does not owe you anything. He does.

kaybeeknits · August 2009

Whats the point of them there if she has a sour puss face and you can cut the tension in the room with a knife.If other people sense the tension, there is even more reason you should be aloof. Let her look crazy if she is, in fact, giving you dirty looks. People will notice, and they'll notice you acting like a sane person instead of giving her the reaction she is obviously looking for.

GroomzMcFinehiney · August 2009

You should say to her "If you don't get that puss off your face, I'm gonna slap it off Eh?" That'll show her.

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