Should FMIL get ready with us?

abbey&josh · August 2009

So I am trying to decide if I should ask FMIL to get ready with us the day of. My Mom sent her rsvp card back declining (you may remember that I was upset about her not coming to the shower, this was definitely worse!). So she won't be there, plus I'm really close to FMIL. Would it be weird if I asked her? Is anyone else doing this? TIA!

jeremy.teresa · August 2009

If you are close to FMIL and you want her there, then def have her there.We are actually having the bridal parties and both sets of parents get ready at our house the day of the wedding. I think its sweet that you want to include her. GL!

Future.Mrs.Shawty · August 2009

DO WHATEVER YOU WANT!!!!!! If you would like her to be a part of that time of the day, ask her if she can. There's not a written rule on who can be there when you're getting ready and who can't.

rschuckman · August 2009

Definitely ask her!!!

jiml · August 2009

I invited my FMIL. She will be going to the salon with us girls to get her hair done. Granted she is not married and all of her children are in the wedding so she'd be all by herself and don't want that.