Thank You's and Tips

Re: Thank You's and Tips

• mindiosu member

  

  August 2009 edited December 2011

  Send thank yous right away. Write something like, "we look forward to using the new steak knoves you have given us for many romantic steak dinners once we are married", you know since you are supposed to wait until after the wedding to use wedding gifts It also helps to spread them out...so I hear since our wedding isn't until November. I believe there is a vendor tipping etiquette post on theknot. That's the most help I can give on that. GL!

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• hrparker

  

  August 2009 edited December 2011

  Send thank yous right away, but do not use the gift until after the wedding.Check this page for tipping:[url]http://www.findalink.net/tippingetiquette.php[/url] (p.s., YES, if your vendor owns their own business, you still tip them if they went above and beyond for you)

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• stosha1 member

  

  August 2009 edited December 2011

  My question is: Can you send them a Tip AFTER the wedding is over along with the Thank you note?Why do I have to decide right then if they deserve a tip?

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• hrparker

  

  August 2009 edited December 2011

  Absolutely you can.I trusted all of my vendors enough to tip them the day of (mts of them had ALREADY gone above and beyond for me), but if you're on the fence about a particular vendor, I think it's acceptable to wait until after the day of and then send an appropriate tip with their thank you note.

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