Hello ladies. Two weeks ago, I lost one of my best friends in a tragic and sudden accident. She was only 8 years old and was supposed to be a Junior Bridesmaid at my wedding (October 24th of this year). My fiance and I were very close to her and her family. Now, we are faced with how--if at all--to address her lack of presence at our wedding. We don't want to upset anyone by reminding them of this horrific tragedy (especially if her family finds the strength to attend.)We had an idea of the second song at the reception be a well-known fast paced swing song that subtly mentions her first name. Days before her accident we played it for her and told her we were looking forward to dancing with her at the wedding to it. So, my fiance and I were thinking of having the DJ mention that the song is a special tribute or something, and then doing a coordinated swing dance, just him and I, for her. We figure if we can't dance with her, we'll do a special dance for her.Does this sound too forward? Do you think her family would get too sad if they were there watching? We might just limit mentions of her in the program and perhaps a picture of her carried in a locket on my bouquet.Any advice would be helpful. Thanks everyone.