Right to the point, one of my BM just told me she can't be in the wedding due to financial reasons. She already bought her dress and paid for it in full. She insisted I ask someone else so they can buy her dress, however, I told her at this point I may not ask someone else. Anyways, should I reimburse her the money for the dress she purchased? I mentioned to her that I understand if she can't attend the wedding at all due to her "financial" reasons and surprisingly she said she would attend and be there with her partner so put her down for two! At $65 per person, I'm like whatever! I'm just upset right now because she says she can't attend because of finances but now she can? So, being that I'm still mad about her decision, I think she should eat the cost of the dress she purchased. When you buy a ticket to a concert and you decide not to go then that's your problem not mine. I sound mean but I'm just tired of all the BM drama lately! I think she should just receive the dress and sell it on craigslist or something, it's out of my hands. I have too many other things to worry about. Thoughts?