So my brother is getting married and I actually use to be best friends with the bride before they started dating (she attached herself to my brother so we had no time to hangout). Of course she asked me to be a bridesmaid and at the time she was talking about get sun dress for bridesmaid dress since it was going to be a beach wedding. I thought a sundress I could afford so no problem. Well months pass and she puts off sending out save the date cards till to late (it is a destination wedding so most people need to book rooms ) and she put off sending out invitations until the last minute (those only went out on time because my mom bought the invites and printed them for her), She has done all DIY for this wedding cutting back cost (which i have no problem with) and a month before the wedding she finally gets us in to try on dresses and she has changed her mind and wants us to get dress from David's bridal (the one thing she doesn't have to spend any money on and she doesn't cut anything back). My mom decided to cover the dress for me since I couldn't and we went that day and they only had 3 to chose from that could actually get in on time and they were all 155 dollar and she also wanted us to purchase a 20 dollar sash. My mom did make a comment in the store that is was a lot to pay for dress last minute and when the boys were wearing 15 dollar white button up shirts and khaki pants. The other girls made a few comments about price while we waited in line, my mom paid for the dress and we left. That night my brother calls my mom and says she showed out at the dress shop because she said something about the price, my mom said the other bridesmaid were not expecting to pay that much either and apparently they had thrown us under the bus as the only ones who said anything about price. Well my mom canceled the dress order and I am no longer a bridesmaid. I kind felt she over reacted. My mom had paid for the dress even though she didn't like them (by the way the color is lime green and I don't tan because I don't want to get skin cancer or pay for a fake spray on tan, so just imagine and petite pale girl in a lime green sparkle dress on the beach) and if she really wanted to get these bridesmaid dress why did she wait till the very last day we could order them before she took us into the shop (I had sent multiple messages, called her and emailed her to try and set up a date to go and look for dresses). So maybe I was a little hurt by the whole thing, you change price point, pick a color that no one in the bridal party will look good in, and wait till the very last moment to pick out dresses and then get mad when someone has the nerve to say something. Oh and after all this her sister wrote a dirty message to my mom on facebook (how classy) saying she was on her s**t list and I was a b***h a** daughter (oh and she is the maid of honor so she is wearing a completely different color and dress). Sorry to rant but this has just ruined the last threads of friendship between me and my brother's finance and I was just wondering if I am over reacting. Oh and I am still going to the wedding, I am just going to be a guest.