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S/o dietary preferences, WDYT

My friend's son is turning 1.  Her DH's parents have major dietary restrictions.  They are vegan but also have religious restrictions.  For example, they wanted their food on a separate table.  The whole thing is really stressing her out.  If I had so many restrictions, I would just bring my own food or eat before I came, rather than trying to make someone cater to me.  WDYT?

Re: S/o dietary preferences, WDYT

  • MrsMyrtleMrsMyrtle member
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    edited December 2011
    I'd bring my own or stay home.
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  • *Barbie**Barbie* member
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    edited December 2011
    she needs to hand them each a bag of salad mix as they walk in the door.

    (provided vegan is ok with eating .0001% ground up bug parts by volume, this should solve both problems.)

    honestly, her H needs to tell them to bring their own food or eat what is provided.
  • **O-Face****O-Face** member
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    edited December 2011
    People that pretentious want everyone to cater to them.  IMHO. 
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  • Butter CookieButter Cookie member
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    edited December 2011
    I'm with Oface
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  • hmonkeyhmonkey member
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    edited December 2011

    as inlaws, they can byo or they can offer suggestions.

    as a host, she can make as many accomodations as she is reasonably able.

    as a guest, i would byo.  as the host, i would ask for catering recommendations from them.

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  • ReturnOfKuusReturnOfKuus member
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    edited December 2011
    I'd give them water and nothing else.
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  • zsazsa-stlzsazsa-stl member
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    edited December 2011
    I wonder how long they have had these restrictions?  If is a life-long thing then surely they are used to dealing with this and would either be avoiding meal-times with others or bringing their own. 

    And now I also want to know what religion requires that your food be on a different table from the food of the heathens.
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  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_dietary-preferences-wdyt?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:47Discussion:e8b918ae-84a6-4d7b-82df-174c50b79c2bPost:61dfe967-bd97-4807-82df-717e61b3a2e2">Re: S/o dietary preferences, WDYT</a>:
    [QUOTE]I wonder how long they have had these restrictions?  If is a life-long thing then surely they are used to dealing with this and would either be avoiding meal-times with others or bringing their own.  <strong>And now I also want to know what religion requires that your food be on a different table from the food of the heathens.
    </strong>Posted by zsazsa-stl[/QUOTE]

    She says Satsung, but she wasn't sure if that was the correct spelling.  She may mean Satsang but I doubt that having your food on a separate table is an actual requirement of that religion. 
  • 6fsn6fsn member
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    edited December 2011
    My cousins are vegan and picky.  When they go to parties or events they bring their own food.  If they can figure this out by 30 surely these people can too.
  • dharmabunnydharmabunny member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_dietary-preferences-wdyt?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:47Discussion:e8b918ae-84a6-4d7b-82df-174c50b79c2bPost:384e3f6c-28d8-4a02-9e00-e108a91b0ebb">Re: S/o dietary preferences, WDYT</a>:
    [QUOTE]People that pretentious want everyone to cater to them.  IMHO. 
    Posted by **O-Face**[/QUOTE]

    This.  I know at least one vegan that I feel like eats this way just to be a pretentious pain in the a$$.  He's also eaten meat as well without issue.

    Either bring their own food (potluck style), they can host their own dinners, or don't plan social outings that revolve around food. 

    Or depending on their conviction, get the hell over their bourgie attitude of too plenty and be a gracious guest.
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