Hey all,
I have two sisters and we decided a long time ago that we would be each others' maid of honour. My older sister got married four years ago and I was her MOH. I am getting married on February 18 and my younger sister will be mine and when my younger sister gets married, my older sister will be hers. This way, we take turns and it's fair.
The problem I am having is that my sister isn't very supportive, she's never around and she hasn't done very much since I got engaged. When my sister got engaged I was always there for her and put together an hour-long powerpoint slide show of pictures from her and her fiance's (now husband's) childhoods and their relationship.
I have tried talking to her about it and she says that I just need to ask for her help but I feel like she should go out of her way for me. I don't want to nag or ask her to be around all the time so instead I'm planning most of the stuff by myself or with my older sister.
I'm really hurt by this and feel as though I am getting a bum deal by having her as my MOH because she isn't putting in any effort. Am I being unreasonable?
I definitely don't want to be a bridezilla! I'd rather do things by myself than cause an argument. I'd love to hear some feedback from other brides.
Thanks