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  • My FSIL makes 3 or 4 different dinners most nights (for 4 people) because the kids don't eat muchMaybe I'm a bad mom, but I am just way to lazy to do that.
  • I live with Buddy and I wish we resembled bunnies at least a little bit more.I'm with you.  It hasn't been a month but it is definitely less frequent than before we lived together.
  • I absolutely agree, but I will also be very different at 35 than when I'm 30, and I don't plan on waiting an extra 15 years just because so I can do all of my "growing up" by myself. I did all of my maturing up until 24 pretty much on my own. From here on out, DH is a part of how I change as a person.I just think that's a weird way to look at it. Of course you're different, everyone changes when they age. I plan to change along with my husband from now on.Amen to that.
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  • Cocoreo - I think without you correcting how Daff spelled your name, we all knew who she was talking about. Like Capri, perhaps your response is one of the things that makes you irritating.
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  • I actually thought the correction was kind of funny.
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  • I have nothing against young brides (I'm only 23), it's the immature brides that get to me.  No one's going to start questioning your age unless you're acting like you're still in high school.As long as we're making badges, can I have a Tacky Bride badge?
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  • cew-I don't think that makes you a bad mom at all.  I don't want to say FSIL is a bad mom, but I really think it's important for children to try different foods more than once, and her girls don't.
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  • okay I gotta ask...is their any winning with you, P2? First you say cocoreo and cacoffer are annoying, then when they just let it roll of their backs, you say that's why they're annoying. Would you prefer they make a fuss and argue and be all like 'why don't you like me?' You never even say why they're annoying. How can they improve themselves and become better knotties if you don't tell them what's wrong?
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  • Tacky Bride Badge coming right up!
    "In the old days my ass would be in your back yard picking cotton, so excuse me if I don't put much stock in how f*cking awesome the old days were." -Nuggs
  • How can they improve themselves and become better knotties if you don't tell them what's wrong?Please reassure me that this was sarcasm.
  • It's not about them becoming better knotties, rho. It's about P2 feeling better about herself. Let it go.
  • If you've spent any time here, you'd know that there's lots of winning to be done. But, not when you spell/use the wrong word like this: okay I gotta ask...is their any winning with you, P2?
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  • tlv-I get what you're saying and I respect that.  The change curve from 30 to 35 is not nearly as steep as from 18 to 24/25ish.  My parents also got married at 21 and 23 and are still married now, 40 years later.  However, my mom has told me that she wishes that she had tried some different things, gone different places and had more experiences on her own.  That may be coloring my perspective.  She once told me that in 1968 one HAD to get married.  Other options were limited.  She always emphasized that I didn't have to get married as that is not a measure of "completeness" in a woman's life the way it may have once been.  She encouraged me to go to school, live alone, travel, build a career but still dabble in other things if I chose, take chances.  I guess that is why I always thought a marriage in your early 20's could be limiting.  Not because you are or are not yet mature, but due to the actual limitation of the time you have to do all of the things that you want that don't put a partner at risk (financial, moving, etc.).  But again, it's simply my opinion. (note-I never said all so I know there will be exceptions- those that graduate early, are on their own as teens, those that don't want any of the things that I have listed and nor do their partners, etc.)
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  • Daff, it was when greentree (I think) posted drawings of her dress.  I think I said something like it's a pretty dress, even though I'm not generally fond of long sleeved formal dresses.  I remember you saying something about e-slapping me for saying long sleeved dresses aren't as nice looking to me.Normally I have little to no problem with you, but that just irked me the wrong way, and the comment to cacoffer brought it to the front of my mind.
  • It's about P2 feeling better about herself.Now THAT is funny. Go assume things, like E would.
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  • I made a shotgun bride.Ladies...there's something I haven't told you...
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  • Cocoreo - I think without you correcting how Daff spelled your name, we all knew who she was talking about. I know this.Like Capri, perhaps your response is one of the things that makes you irritating. Your just saying that really irritated me.
  • It's about P2 feeling better about herself.Now THAT is funny. Go assume things, like E would.Right. Because your pattern of repeatedly informing others that they're annoying or trying too hard doesn't come off as insecure at all. 
  • Yah, well, you saying that I'm irritating you is irritating me. ...it's not a game of "I know you are, but what am I".
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    "In the old days my ass would be in your back yard picking cotton, so excuse me if I don't put much stock in how f*cking awesome the old days were." -Nuggs
  • I never called you annoying, I called you insecure.
  • it's the internet, Opalsky, you can't possible determine a person's character based on the things they TYPE. It's just like sarcasm, it doesn't portray well on the interwebz.
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  • Shelly, your badge wins. I bow to you.
    "In the old days my ass would be in your back yard picking cotton, so excuse me if I don't put much stock in how f*cking awesome the old days were." -Nuggs
  • I wasn't responding to you, Opal, I was responding to Cocoreo - who said I was irritating her by saying that her statement was irritating.
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  • Yah, well, you saying that I'm irritating you is irritating me. ...it's not a game of "I know you are, but what am I". It's starting to sound like that game.
  • This whole thread has become both irritating and annoying.
  • I *love* the tacky bride badge!
  • Wow, crocoroeo you're really making a lot of sense.
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  • I should go over to the bump and see what happens.
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  • p2- really?  i think you can determine a lot about someones character based on what they type. or their internet persona's character.  either way its how we know them.
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