So my fiance and I don't need anything, in terms of wedding gifts. We have all the household items we should need, we've both had apartments. Instead we want to ask for money instead of gifts. I found this little rhyme online as a nice way of asking: "If you were thinking of giving a gift, to help us on our way. A gift of money towards our house, would really make our day" Is this tacky/rude?How else would you suggest asking for money in lieu of gifts without sounding demanding or like you're expecting a gift?