I'm marrying my best friend on 1/22/11 & am having 6 bridesmaids, 3 of which are sisters. All of the bridesmaids' dresses have been ordered except one of my sister's. This past Friday she said she was available to go on Sunday so I booked an appointment for today. I told her about the costs, the little time it would take, etc, all on Friday & confirmed the time again yesterday - we agreed it was going to be a "sister date" for the dress & coffee/chat time following.
There was a huge accident on the tollroad to get there about an hour before, so I sent her a text message & called & left a voicemail telling her to meet at my house & I'll take the back way to get there..no answer. Twenty minutes later I called again to let her know that I had left the house since I hadn't heard from her & will just meet her there. I get to the salon on time - 10 minutes goes by, no answer..30 minutes, she's not responding to my call.
An hour later she calls & says she forgot..no I'm sorry, no lets reschedule, nothing. She went to the gym, forgot her phone at home, & was now drenched in sweat. Operation BM dress completion - FAIL.
A few months ago my mom showed up to my only dress appointment an hour late, after I had found my dream dress & finished everything. Minus my amazing grandmother, my family has had zero interest in anything to do with the wedding. My fiance's family has made every effort to be involved or at least encouraging to both of us.
Am I the only one? I was mad at first, but I didn't raise my voice or be mean to her when she called..I'm really just hurt.