Hello, I'm new to the posting scene but I have a question about asking people to be in the WP.I am getting married 8/24/10 and I need to go ahead and ask people to be in the WP since the dresses have to be ordered by Jan.I found these really cute cards that say "will you be my bridesmaid" and I fell in love with them. All my prospects live in town except one (she is my cousin). So my question is: Do I mail them or hand them out personally? I don't want anyone to feel pressured with me standing right there and handing it to them, but I don't want them to think it was impersonal of me to mail out cards like that. What do you all think?Oh and one more. MyFI is very shy and doesn't want to ask anyone to be groomsmen. Is this something I should do for him or just make him do it anyway?