My FI and I have been engaged for nearly a year and our wedding is still just under six months away. We didn't plan it that way we had to push the date back twice due to financial trouble and now finally we have a date that looks like it will work. This past Saturday my sister's boyfriend proposed, which is great. When it first happened they said that they wanted to get married in the spring too, but will wait until after my wedding so as not to steal my thunder. Two days ago on the other hand my father expressed his concern about relatives who would have to travel all the way from Michigan to South Carolina for both weddings this spring. He was specifically concerned about my 80 year old Grandparents. I understand his concern and I share it, but he was suggesting having my sister's wedding the day after mine in which case I would have to postpone my honeymoon or miss my sister's wedding. Also, wouldn't that still steal my thunder? I love my sister and I feel for my grandparents having to travel so far. If this was her first wedding it would be one thing but this will be a second marriage for both her and her fiancee whereas I have never been married before. I don't know what to say. I can't control what date she will pick. But do I say something about it? Won't that look like I'm unfeeling towards my grandparents? But I have had my date set for a while and my FI and I have waited so long to get married, I don't want to delay my honeymoon any more and I don't want a double wedding.