When FI and I decided on a DW, we sat down and made a guest list (like any other couple). We agreed to stick to this list no matter what. Well, my mom decided to invite her BFF plus her hubby. Ok, fine, they take an annual trip every year around the same time as my wedding. I just crossed another couple off my list to accommodate them. Well, my mom informed me she invited my aunt and uncle (and I'm guessing their 2 kids). Umm, with?!
Not only am I worried about costs but it's not fair for her to invite all these people and FMIL can't do the same. FI says it's ok, we'll manage but I feel if we make an exception then all hell will break loose. Should I let it go or talk to my mom?